what the hell is wrong with those friends? it's not even that they're clearly wrong, no they have a point, but why in the hell do they fucking think it's THEIR right to tell a girl something like that? much less so dismissively, as if she's not her own person who could make her own conclusions. sure, express your concerns, but the way they were talking, they were basically trying to make her mind up for her. what in the living fuck??? that's actually so messed up imo