thank you for the translations so far!
I agree with damian here too, this journey is not going to be easy for both of them, and kindly explaining things to her wont really make her understand, she was still trying to sneak in her pretty clothes and jewellery before. as serious as she is about pulling through to the very end, she has zero knowledge or assumptions of just how exactly this journey will go, so it’s understandable that this is all a shock to her
He’s not even being harsh or bullying her, he’s simply being blunt and telling her as it is. as her guard he’s also got his life on the line and he needs to be certain these shocking facts of reality she will come across wont shake her resolve or set her back from how surprised she is each time.
I dont think any of this is because he doesn’t respect her, and yes his opinion of her isnt the best like we saw in the earlier chapters but thats entirely on how she has been living her life this entire time. I cant blame him right now for reminding her of her silk pajamas since she really does need to understand whatever expectations she has of this journey is not going to be her reality, and the sooner she faces the truth the easier it would be for her to adapt to whatever she has to face