@boldmonkey
i have no issues with him lusting after two women.
it's him taking part in a cheating relationship which i take issue with. both of them are to blame, cheating is not one sided at all.
shitty marriage or not. if it's so shit, then he should advocate for her to leave it.
not to mention the indecisiveness. which is annoying, but not killing. it's mainly the cheating, and that would kill my respect for anyone, except for in some very specific types of situations.