No, what you're saying isn't what you mean to convey. You're saying vague things and whining when you're not understood exactly as you intend. It's very hard to understand your definition of things when your premise is wrong and you explain yourself poorly.
The premise here is the second point I mentioned. She is making the "wrong" choices, which means she's progressing the story by your definition, something you said she doesn't do. That's a contradiction you have to explain, because what you say doesn't make sense as long as that contradiction is there.