you know, like your typical soyboy carricature who despite thinking of himself as so "heckin unique and wholesome chungus" they can be distilled down into a soyjack.
they think they can do no wrong, the world must accomodate them and since they're victims of childhood trauma, not only can they not get over it but also anything they do can be excused as a trauma response.
for D.I.D its especially infuriating cause they'll say thay have 60 rare persoanlities (all of which queer, sharing the same mindset as them and some kind of werewolf/vampire as well). meanwhile actual people who are diagnosed with that disorder have at most 3 personalities and thise tend to screw them over.
and yeah, I think alot of this is due not to some immuable characteristic about them but rather a lack of effort/ethiques on their part, which I think a strong upbringing would have been able to fix more broadly.