@HDMI1 Fair, by the definition I was using, a sufficient quantity of alcohol would also be a date rape drug. I meant it as "A thing that puts someone into an altered state of mind for the purpose of having sex that they might otherwise not consent to."
@icarushector That is why some get drunk so they'll be more willing to try things they are never willing to do in a sober state because it is the first or second time kinda thing. You may not have thought about it that much but it is true for both men and women, though there are women who feel ashamed of what they did while drunk and accuse others of forcing them to do these things. Sure there are probably many more times where people really didn't want to do something drunk or not. One big factor is when a women sleeps with a man those in her social circle don't approve of, so she is affraid of losing those she thought she was close with. While if a man says he was raped by a women, then men in their social circle or not say something or think something like "You had sex with a woman who really wanted you and you're complaining? What a faggot!". There are plenty of other instances as well. Problem is we think others don't experience the same problems as us, we love social contact and shit.
For anyone confused like I was, this is before they go to the magic appraisal woman with the huge dog. This is the night of the celebration where Louisa the Seeker Guild employee joined them.