'one with a girl is def better' cue all the vids of girlfriends/anecdotes online about partners being awful on both sides (but i mean, other than specifically having kids it shouldn't matter, then again it is still japan)
FYI, don’t be gay unless your family is already in shambles. <——-??????
Tbf, if they got too much shit going on, being gay prolly isn't considered a bad thing to them compared to them learning another son was hurt or so
(tho i remember some short anecdote someone posted as reddit or another social media comment that's like "they (my parents) said it (coming out) was the worst thing that's ever happened in my life; I had childhood cancer")