Wow, girl's in the dregs, isn't it?
She reminds me of my former NEET days, when all I wanted to do wasn't worthy of trying because a crushing fear of failure and just let time pass...
But somone came and helped me out of the pit (more accurately, kicked my ass out), and now I'm closer to my dream. Not close by any means, but closer than before, or ever. If only the Unreal Game Engine didn't scare the lights out of me, unlike Unity, C#, Java or Visual Studio...
I just hope something similar happens to her, to find something or someone that makes life worth a retry.