Shihai Shoujo Kubaru-chan - Vol. 2 Ch. 14 - Instructions For Love

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To be honest, is yandere that bad for him? He has no friends and no family that cares about him, so her isolating him won't be an issue
There's a strange irony about the "yandere" trope: the desire for it reflects a selfish wish to be loved despite not doing or being anything special to the yandere in question. The way that a yandere shows "love"-- infamously, by being willing to emotionally manipulate, blackmail, imprison or murder the object of their affections-- indicates that their affection is about the selfish sustainment of their own feelings rather than the well-being of their "beloved", regardless of whether they ostensibly seek said well-being.

In truth, the desire for "yandere" is roundaboutly a desire to be objectified rather than loved, the desirer finding something they want in such a scenario.

If the male lead cares about being a whole person, having people with such a disposition in his life isn't going to be a good thing in its own right.
 
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Well, that went dark all of a sudden. Mission abort!!! REPEAT!! ABORT MISSION!!!! 🏃‍♂️
Also isn't she one of his classmates? The same classmates who'd never bother to help him when he was being bullied. I wouldn't even want anything to do with any of them tbh. Even if I'm no longer being bullied. (n)
that goes from 0 to 100 real fast

wtf kind of personality disorder is this????
It's yandere fever 😭
To be honest, is yandere that bad for him? He has no friends and no family that cares about him, so her isolating him won't be an issue
Except now he got two of them, granted if puppeteer girl decides she no longer wants him to be in a relationship with that girl, he's going to be stuck in between a rock and a hard place.
There's a strange irony about the "yandere" trope: the desire for it reflects a selfish wish to be loved despite not doing or being anything special to the yandere in question. The way that a yandere shows "love"-- infamously, by being willing to emotionally manipulate, blackmail, imprison or murder the object of their affections-- indicates that their affection is about the selfish sustainment of their own feelings rather than the well-being of their "beloved", regardless of whether they ostensibly seek said well-being.

In truth, the desire for "yandere" is roundaboutly a desire to be objectified rather than loved, the desirer finding something they want in such a scenario.

If the male lead cares about being a whole person, having people with such a disposition in his life isn't going to be a good thing in its own right.
I fully agree with you, I can say from personal experience (not that my ex was a yandere), a lot of times when you are single, and you want to be in a relationship, you'll just yearn for some form of affection. Any level of affection at all, but sometimes there is such a thing as too much affection. When someone likes you so much that they even want to control you, they want you to behave in a certain way to fulfill their idealistic relationship fantasies. In the end, they aren't really accepting you for who you are, but rather think of you more as an object that then can mold and shape in their own way. That is toxic, and that's sort of the mentality behind a yandere only it is the extreme.
As you say, such people in reality are very toxic and would most certainly make your life miserable. Ain't nothing good to come out of such a relationship, that is for certain.
 

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