This one has a pretty toxic message. If your self worth constantly is defined by comparing yourself to others, yes. You'll become a bitter old person who can never live up to anyone. Because the people who make a difference in this life aren't chasing someone else's dream or fixating about the difference between their talent and anyone else's. They're blithely chasing their ideas without fear or doubt.
what about you dream is to become best basketball player but you were blessed with less than 5 foot tall body? can you said you truly chasing your ideal to become best basketball player when you didn't have right talent to achieve it?
because to be the best basketball player, you will eventually facing the difference in talent that you can never overcome, height.
"if you work hard, you can achieve your dream" "stop comparing you with others, be your ideal self".
but reality is, some people can't never achieve their dream no matter how hard they work and effort pull into it and they can never be ideal self because society will reject it.
if my ideals is to be man with 100 wives, should i chase it without fear and doubt? do i make difference in life if that is my ideals?
what you saying is nice, but that all depends what your dream and ideal self is. not all ideal is good and not all dreams are made equal. life is unfair and harsh. sometimes you needs to accept that you being dealed with bad hand and nothing you could do to win the game. the best option is to fold and minimize the lost.