Get off your high horse, Lorenzo. Who do you think you are, Lorenzo de Medici or something? Ibelina is a reincarnator. She doesn't want to know what kind of life some random gardener's helper will be able to offer her. It could be a single bedroom at his parents' home, where she would be at the parents' mercy, waiting on them hand and foot. More luckily it could be a single room apartment in the cheapest part of the town. If she was super lucky, it would be a shack on the town outskirts with a tiny vegetable garden of their own.