I don't know what to think; I get that the only person to care about Alejandro is Ibelina and that he relies heavily on her for emotional support. He loves her very much because she actually cared about him. I understand where it's coming from, but I dislike the possessiveness and clingy-ness towards her.
I think what makes me upset is that Ibelina can't encourage him to reach out to others. To make friends or try to have small talk. The story might be building up to it, who knows? The knight girl is a potential friend, Lorenzo as well perhaps. However, because of how he's so possessive of Ibelina, he's not trying to get to know anyone else.
Ibelina being the only one that Alejandro listens to is mentally taxing on her. I just hope that the story would try to show that and he'd actually develop a life outside of her.
EDIT:
And you know what? I get that she's a maid and that she can't be talking casually to the now super important Alejandro. But she wants him to live happily right? If she saw that his behavior was a bit problematic, why couldn't she just try to say it? If his wellbeing was her priority, then her losing her job shouldn't matter to her! Or atleast be worth the risk. I think there could be another reason why she's not scolding him anymore but I'm not remembering it.