Yeah, I wish he'd acknowledge his shitty behavior instead of just pinning it on "oh no people assumed things based on my appearance waaaa"
Guess what buddy, that happens to literally everyone, and is especially bad for historically disenfranchised groups and/or people who fall outside of societal norms. So yeah, kinda hard to sympathize with his whole "girls expect me to act like a gentleman(?) because I'm handsome, time to seduce gullible women and then break their hearts and tell them to get lost after using them for quick sex" thing.
Love the FL tho, at least she knows what she wants