Takane no Hana wa Midaresaki - Ch. 66 - Self-Control Advisory

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Idk how I'm supposed to feel when I'm reading this manga lmao
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I love the swings this manga takes from wholesome to horny from time to time. Sawada is a great master of control and his ability to stop issues is great.

Thanks @ShamelessScumbag for the chapter and translation.
 
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While this goes for a pervy wholesome vibe, it's becoming more and more insane to me that he hasn't tried to smash.
 
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Horny and wholesome as always. But they should seriously get more intense with the foreplay already.
 
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Such a good dom. It's his job to keep her in check.
I love these two goofball perverts.
After seeing so much dysfunctional bdsm (especially femdom for some reason) I'm just amazed at how much I resonate with this manga in pretty much every chapter. Everything feels just perfect, the exact way I would have it, even down to the fact that he wants this to be completely private between them. And the strong affection mixed into the kinky stuff.

The way that their intimacy is portrayed (which is rare even for vanilla romance manga) and just the fact that the kink is so evenly matched with their (especially his) reassurance of each other. Their dynamic never feels unbalanced. There is no sick blackmail or ignoring of consent. Just love expressed through a kink. Expressed in a better way than most vanilla romances. Crazy.
 
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After seeing so much dysfunctional bdsm (especially femdom for some reason) I'm just amazed at how much I resonate with this manga in pretty much every chapter. Everything feels just perfect, the exact way I would have it, even down to the fact that he wants this to be completely private between them. And the strong affection mixed into the kinky stuff.

The way that their intimacy is portrayed (which is rare even for vanilla romance manga) and just the fact that the kink is so evenly matched with their (especially his) reassurance of each other. Their dynamic never feels unbalanced. There is no sick blackmail or ignoring of consent. Just love expressed through a kink. Expressed in a better way than most vanilla romances. Crazy.
That's because they are sharing something very very intimate and showing their "twisted" selves to each other, knowing that they are loved for that. This makes their bond and love much stronger than a "normal" relationship in a "normal" romance manga.
Compared to the usual erotica with bdsm that focus more on the erotic/lust aspect, this one is doing a great job in focusing on the romantic aspect, by mixing both romance and kink in a homogenic feeling that makes their relationship appear both pure and kinky at the same time, but never vulgar
 
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That's because they are sharing something very very intimate and showing their "twisted" selves to each other, knowing that they are loved for that. This makes their bond and love much stronger than a "normal" relationship in a "normal" romance manga.
Compared to the usual erotica with bdsm that focus more on the erotic/lust aspect, this one is doing a great job in focusing on the romantic aspect, by mixing both romance and kink in a homogenic feeling that makes their relationship appear both pure and kinky at the same time, but never vulgar
I generally agree, but the "bdsm" "romances" that I've seen havent been overt erotica. They seem to market themselves as romances, but they tend to almost always have some kind of blackmail or lack of consent. Never an equal dynamic. Most have been femdom (and a few maledom), and most have been shoujo/jousei. The only one that has been similar to this one was Nana to Kaoru. I feel like unless the dominant partner is very conscientious and grounded as a person, the story ends up feeling abusive.

Either way, I just love how I can read every chapter of this manga and every interaction that these two have just clicks. No weird or unnecessary turn away from consensual love. It's similar to how Kaoru, for all of his flaws, was so obsessively meticulous in carefully crafting every experience for Nana, always worrying about her well-being.
 
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I generally agree, but the "bdsm" "romances" that I've seen havent been overt erotica. They seem to market themselves as romances, but they tend to almost always have some kind of blackmail or lack of consent. Never an equal dynamic. Most have been femdom (and a few maledom), and most have been shoujo/jousei. The only one that has been similar to this one was Nana to Kaoru. I feel like unless the dominant partner is very conscientious and grounded as a person, the story ends up feeling abusive.

Either way, I just love how I can read every chapter of this manga and every interaction that these two have just clicks. No weird or unnecessary turn away from consensual love. It's similar to how Kaoru, for all of his flaws, was so obsessively meticulous in carefully crafting every experience for Nana, always worrying about her well-being.
I mean, if we have to be critic, this is obviously following Nana to Kaoru steps.
The difference is that in Nana to Kaoru, the romance was built later into the story, as a consequence of their interaction. But for the most, the focus was on the bdsm aspect and the erotic vibe it created.
In this one, on the other hand, romance and eros/bdsm started together and are still going together. They are kinky because they love each other, and love each other beacuse they are kinky.

Now, for other works, Idk what you're reading, but I think the reason they go straight into erotica/soft-porn is because bdsm is still seen as just a kink, a twisted way to have sex. Especially for jousei and femdom in particular, it's just seen as something perverted, with almost nothing romantic.
 
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They are kinky because they love each other, and love each other beacuse they are kinky.

Now, for other works, Idk what you're reading, but I think the reason they go straight into erotica/soft-porn is because bdsm is still seen as just a kink, a twisted way to have sex. Especially for jousei and femdom in particular, it's just seen as something perverted, with almost nothing romantic.
Sorry for like butting in, but I'd just like to say that these kind of exchanges, where you trust your full self to your SO to let them do this to you, is the greatest expression of love that I know of.
 
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Sorry for like butting in, but I'd just like to say that these kind of exchanges, where you trust your full self to your SO to let them do this to you, is the greatest expression of love that I know of.
Well, that's the absolute truth.
And to add to your message, I recently read (don't ask why) that, statistically, couples engaged in a bdsm relationship have a stronger bond and last longer than vanilla couples
 

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