@starswper honestly I agree. But the author makes her demands impossible so the chapters can keep going on and on for $$$$$. In reality the ginger girl is way better, she recognizes his help and respects him, purple hair has zero appreciation and makes unreasonable demands just like a spoilt child. Honestly she's not much better than her clan, only more innocent. She's basically acting like a gold digger for a powerful husband since she already has riches. In his past life she probably just clutched onto him cuz he was a great survivor and most powerful option at that time like a true digger.
Tldr fuck the purple chick, he should take the ginger Phoenix. But of course that'd be too easy and would end things quicker losing reader interest and precious reader $$$$. Fuckin authors man. Every time.