Yeah, she definitely got a bad hand overall.
Sure, she acted very spoiled. But that was caused by being raised very spoiled too.
She even weaponizes it to avoid an international incident.
On the other hand, so many complaints unrelated to her also fall into her lap.
No wonder she dislikes the glasses guy so much. Sure, complain if she somehow insults someone and causes a diplomatic incident. But why is he trying to push all that info about the famine and the like into her lap and not her father's?
I can only think of one reasoning to justify all this.
The king is an idiot, and most upper nobles are corrupt and using this.
The princess is spoiled, but is still smarter enough she could hopefuly help fix the issues if they could push her to it.
She is too spoiled, and aware that it is not her responsibility yet, so this kinda backfires and makes her justified in being contrarian (in her mind at least).
They give up and revolution happens.