@Anna15485
No wonder she hated her child :c Harsen is a bad friggin husband. He should have paid more attention to her mental well being.
To be fair looks like Harsen had a harsh environment growing up and then when he took over his house, I mean just look at the cluster-F of a situation where:
[ul]he is sent to war while his wife is gregnant,
his uncle is after his household
his father dies
his wife is in the dumps (and unable to offer him much support/help)
another dude is after his wife[/ul]
All within a short time, yes I don't disagree he isn't a great husband but at the same time I'm willing to give him some slack considering what a tough spot he's in