@Phoenix_VII
By admiting that you'd be trying to go back to your own world, you're admitting that you're the type of person to not accept your current reality and try to adapt to it. You're also prone to name-calling anyone that doesnt see things the same way you do.
To put the ball back in your court, by my POV you're the loser for not being able to accept your current reality. You are the defeatist who can't admit that you've lost and continues playing a game even though everyone else has already moved on.
1. Dont namecall people just because they have a different POV from you.
2. Try to learn to adapt to your current reality more often. There is a place in this world for people like you that cant accept the current reality but you must also be ok with the fact that there are people that are ok with changing and progressing in their new environment.
3. Learn how to loose a fight without retorting that anyone that doesnt is a defeatist. The concept of deafeatism isnt as black and white as your accusations attribute.
Oblivion exists because its purpose is to rid us as humans of our past desires hopes dreams and lingering attachments. She's now displaying just how important oblivion is to the human psyche. Where most protagonists would assess their situation and move on, shes bound to her past. And unable to look at her current situation with a clear, open minded point of view. She ignores the fact that she could have been reborn in a much more unsavoury situation and instead blames others who are simply caring for her for hindering her from progressing in her goals.
I would assume (noting that assuming makes an ass out of the assumer) that anyone that relates with MC needs to become more centred and focus on whats going on in their lives and how to adapt to their current situation without giving up their goals.
Want to get back to your old world? You can still research how to do that without being so ungrateful and rude to the people taking care of you. Want to transmigrate? After all, if you came in there must be a way back out right? That goal can be accomplished without ignoring that you have a loving family that genuinely cares about you.
Heres to hoping that both MC and anyone that relates to MC in her current (as of this chapter) state learns the value of the present. Remains less focused on the past. And uses that information to plan a better future.