Yess tho sad, the man's behavior is totally normal and expected once you got your basic needs fulfilled.
Things will get more difficult once we have more sufficient, ideologically-driven men, so the two principles stand: understand the goal of others (and the world, physically and philosophically) then accomodate as muuuch as possible. At the same time, improve whatever skill you are inclined to (genetically or motivation-based) that will allow more resource abundance.
If we value unharm, non-hatred, and unloneliness, then anything else than these two is distraction.