...one of my relatives was in a toxic relationship like that, but the problem wasn't the guy cheating on her but that he was a leecher through and through: she worked her a$$ off even while being pregnant and in the meantime he was at home spending his time leisurely. Now, I'm not saying that being a househusband is a bad thing since that is a great help but, you know, a part-time job sometimes at least? He didn't work at all during the time they were married, even when she wasn't expecting. And her parents told her not to get married: two kids later and a divorce she really regretted not listening to them. That's why I'm saying that Hari should tell her friend and open her eyes forcefully, so she won't end up like my relative did, spending all her good years on a good-for-nothing and kids in the middle who will just suffer from their parents mistakes