"if you don't understand my silence, you don't deserve my words" and some sort of weird angst. keh
I do think he is rather childish for thinking that he just would become her butler, though its understandable for pfft... a starry-eyed and rebellious 13 year-old.
he seems hardy enough and has enough fortune. but etiquette, diplomacy and hospitality are all things that he HAS to learn.