Its kind of hard to read this because I too am an anxious perfectionist with very low self-worth that causes me to drive myself into harmful situations, obviously not as harmful as Tia, but I really want baby girl to start to see herself as a person whose deserving of a safe and loving environment. Cedric did not disappoint. I'm glad he didn't go the "you don't trust me route", and that he wants her to care for herself.