@So-chan
"Sure, there are pairs where the man is a useless bum, but the reality is that the women they are with are also low value, or are constantly on the lookout for a better catch."
Citation needed. Otherwise, you know fuck all about the situations of these people :/
But it's rather telling that you think either women always look for better catch or are low value as being the only explanations for a woman being in a relation. How sad is your life to not know what love is ?
For the rest, you can just make the exact same dumb "argument" in reverse :
"The fact is, I don't see how a woman can be happy with a man that's not able to provide for her and their children. If the roles are reversed I can only see the woman's resentment slowly growing."
The fact is, I don't see how a man can be happy with a woman that's not able to provide for her and their children. If the roles are reversed I can only see the man's resentment slowly growing.
"In normal setup a man is happy and proud to provide, since giving help, both financially and with labor is how men show love. But in a reversal will just make the woman feel like she's more of a man than her husband. That can't end well in most cases."
In normal setup a woman is happy and proud to provide, since giving help, both financially and with labor is how women show love. But in a reversal will just make the man feel like she's more of a woman than her wife. That can't end well in most cases.
You're welcome to argue against these without arguing at the same time with the reverse :/