Husbands could not legal commit rape to their wives until about 1980---See the Notorious RBG on this topic. Husbands had near total control over their wives and wives were lawfully expected to offer themselves in order to please their husbands. It was quite sick. In about 1980, wives could finally seek legal recourse for a husband who raped her (forced her to have sex without consent). Until that time, by legal definition, a husband could not rape his wife. Hell, the ADA (Americans with Disabilities Act) was only passed in 1990. It's taken 30 years to have much if any meaningful impact on society. In the not so distant past, husbands had total control over their wives finances, could open bank accounts in their names, take their paychecks, gamble or drink it away, or whatever, and the wife could effectively do little or nothing. It was all deemed within the husband's "lawful rights", hence why guys like me legit cringe thinking about those "Dark Days". (Gets chills) My own father was quite progressive and even he displayed some of the toxic cap (by no means even remotely in the magnitude of the majority, but still, it was there).
I find these stories a throwback to the Dark Days. I mean, shit! "Women's Lib" didn't really take off until the 1970s. When my Mom entered college in 1967-1968, her grades were sent home to her parents, she was not independent (nor was my Dad for that matter after two years service in the Vietnam War), and she had to wear skirts past her knees, there were curfews in the all female dorms, she was effectively a glorified pinup prisoner" as were effectively all women. You just ed hoped & prayed that your prospective husband was not a "bad man". Guys would "change" after marriage once they had "captured" said female (What is this? Competitive Wife Angling?). It's not widely broadcast and unless you have women who would talk about it in your life, few I expect know. Then there was the "Cult of Purity" and how women who got "knocked up" were treated. Lord the stories I could tell...
It is sufficient to say that between Roe v Wade (privacy between a doctor and patient) and other legal rulings, it wasn't until the late 1970s to early 1980s that women had meaningful independence, and even then, it wasn't until really recently that things changed. Yes, there were always the feminist who won her independence, but those were the exception (and some of the worst people keeping women in these systems of injustice were in fact women). Heh.