Ushimitsu Gao - Vol. 1 Ch. 9

[MangaDex]

 

[reutermo]

I love this series! Thanks for translating!!

 

[abxgh]

ok this is pretty funny lol

 

[lordsavor]

I can't believe the author managed to craft a guy denser than every cuck in a NTR doujins

 

[TheBlackGamer]

Hm hate her friend. Like I get it she has a point about him. But should I really take a cheater seriously?

 

[keatsta]

Great chapter... Going from the intense raw sexuality of seeing her ghostfucking den, to the painful hopelessness and confusion of the husband, right into such a goofy comedy routine? Who else but Paru lol.

 

[Speederzdk]

Oh no, I can see it. I’m seeing the “the cheating made us stronger” happening in real time, fuck. It’s so over.

Also who the fuck is the friend to look at him like that? She’s actively cheating on her own husband. She’s a million times worse.

 

[Speederzdk]

Hm hate her friend. Like I get it she has a point about him. But should I really take a cheater seriously?

She should take one good look in the mirror before she casts judgement on anyone, lmao.

Like sure, the husband is a bad husband (to whatever extent you can take the FMCs word at, which truthfully isn’t much because we don’t actually know if she has communicated her intimacy problems properly outside of saying there’s an issue) but the FMC (and her friend) are both complete human garbage.

 

[Dingo777]

Now THIS is a Dark Comedy. Emphasis on Dark and Comedy.

 

[HippoPilot]

That ghost has no right to act like the good guy. As well as her friend, fuck her cheating ass too. Everyone here is so self righteous the more they are in the wrong. None of it is the husbands fault besides dismissing ghosts because his wife never communicated her problems.

 

[TheBlackGamer]

She should take one good look in the mirror before she casts judgement on anyone, lmao.

Exactly. Before you start talking shit about someone. Make sure you're not a piece of shit yourself with no room to talk.

If you wanna be a moral person that judges someone's faults fine but with that comes responsibility of being a moral person.

Otherwise anything regarding a topic you're immoral on can immediately be dismissed even when you have a point because of your inability to see your own flaws.

This friend literally talking about how great affairs are tries to judge the husband for being neglectful of his wife? The irony writes itself.

 

[Dingo777]

That ghost has no right to act like the good guy. As well as her friend, fuck her cheating ass too. Everyone here is so self righteous the more they are in the wrong. None if it is the husbands fault besides dismissing ghosts because his wife never communicated her problems.

She has, it’s mentioned pretty early on that he dodged any attempts of hers to communicate

 

[HippoPilot]

She should take one good look in the mirror before she casts judgement on anyone, lmao.

Like sure, the husband is a bad husband (to whatever extent you can take the FMCs word at, which truthfully isn’t much because we don’t actually know if she has communicated her intimacy problems properly outside of saying there’s an issue) but the FMC (and her friend) are both complete human garbage.

I'm going to say a generalization and I refuse to say the other thing because everyone knows the generalization is still true.
In female psychology the perceived moral highground comes from how much wrong you've been found out on vs the good you've done instead of all the actual wrong vs the good you've done. In her mind "my husband doesn't know so it can't hurt him and everyone will benefit" so that excuses the fact deep down she knows it's wrong and hurtful otherwise she wouldn't have to hide it. It's why in arguments they'll bring really up old shit all the time because it adds weight to their moral highground since if something was genuinely forgetten it's like giving away free "perceived" wrong on the person you're arguing against. Regardless if anyone entertains this logic theycll still act like people are supposed to and try gaslighting you into accepting it.

Women also desire this stupid thrill rollercoaster of "danger and risk" but refuse to admit they've that simple and irrational so they create these self delusions like "it's helping my marriage actually." Then they encourage their friends to play the same "games" they do so they'll feel better as they're not the only morally corrupt one they know.

 

[AcidVlad]

mfw I see new update of Itagaki-sensei's goonfantasy
A shame that I'm into it

She’s actively cheating on her own husband. She’s a million times worse.

None if it is the husbands fault besides dismissing ghosts because his wife never communicated her problems.

You pin-pointed it

Women also desire this stupid thrill rollercoaster of "danger and risk" but refuse to admit they've that simple and irrational so they create these self delusions like "it's helping my marriage actually."

You won my incel-heart with this message not sure it is a good thing tho

 

[TheBlackGamer]

She has, it’s mentioned pretty early on that he dodged any attempts of hers to communicate

The problem is as also mentioned early in the story he lacks self-confidence. It's obvious this is a typical NTR story trying to be "quirky". Where husband isn't strong or masculine anymore and the wife loses attraction to him and goes to a stronger and better man.

The reason he was able to marry his wife is because of how strong he was back then.

Even if he became more masculine again instead of a tired old man he is now the damage has been done. His wife's a cheater (to a ghost lol but cheating is cheating regardless) and there's nothing to really be done about it other than divorce and move on if he becomes aware of everything going forward.

But I'm not going to just give the wife her free pass she tries to communicate in the most feminine way and unless the dude is good at reading womanese (which he isn't). He's not going to get it. You have to be direct and masculine something she obviously fails at that's led to this situation till it's gotten so bad. I still say the wife is more in the wrong than the husband. Husband needs to get that strength back but it's something he needs to figure out not be told. Wife needed to sit down and talk to him on any night he's home for dinner.

 

[Kurshir]

Paru-sensei bros it is so fucking over, she is going for the "cheating is a good thing actually" stuffs

 

[Gogglesluxio]

Oh no the ghost is starting to feel bad about fucking his wife

I hope they fuse and magic away the problem

 

[Weoooo]

Oh no, I can see it. I’m seeing the “the cheating made us stronger” happening in real time, fuck. It’s so over.

Also who the fuck is the friend to look at him like that? She’s actively cheating on her own husband. She’s a million times worse.

You guys need to get over the idea that she's cheating on her husband and more understand that she just walked into a ghost-fuck den where her friend has been having ghost sex for days and her friend's husband was like "oh, I thought she was sick!?!!?"

Like, look at that room. Look at it. Look at how obviously messed up Megumi is. She says the room smells like death. It's a depraved, desperate, insane sight, and Megumi's husband is just standing outside that room and not going in.

She has every right to look at him with disgust. Dude's ignoring his wife going totally insane while fuckin' a ghost. It doesn't matter that she's bad, that's not the point. The point is that Megumi is having a life breakdown that shouldn't happen if she even had roomates, let alone a fuckin' husband. The dude's left her in that room for literal days, when she said she had a cold.

The problem is as also mentioned early in the story he lacks self-confidence. It's obvious this is a typical NTR story trying to be "quirky". Where husband isn't strong or masculine anymore and the wife loses attraction to him and goes to a stronger and better man.

The reason he was able to marry his wife is because of how strong he was back then.

How... how are you getting this so wrong? It's NOT strength. You're literally reading this the opposite way than it's happening.

The husband feels inadequate and shuts down all discussions about his lack of intimacy because of his feelings of inadequacy, yes. But that's not the problem. The problem isn't strength at all; that's what HE thinks the problem is, but it's not. He thinks she's unsatisfied and feels lonely cause he can't dumb 15 loads into her and go all night, when the issue is that he barely talks to her, hugs her, or even holds her hand. She wants to feel like she's loved and appreciated, and she's tried to tell him this but he refuses to listen because he's both too insecure and his ego is in the way. He's sure he's doing the best he can, and is afraid that his best isn't enough; but the problem is he's not even trying.

Now that we see how the ghost died, it's easy to get how and why he picked up on Megumi's loneliness. He's attentive and sensitive to someone being lonely, he committed suicide all alone in an empty house. He probably saw a kindred spirit in her, and what really sets him off is when he hears the husband talk about killing himself, too.

Megumi wasn't stolen away by a strong virile man who gave her the masculine presence she needs. She was sexually comforted by a lonely ghost who was sensitive and attentive enough to notice how lonely she was, too. Which is why you can tell this is a story written by a woman.

Like FFS people this shit ain't hard

 

[TheBlackGamer]

You guys need to get over the idea that she's cheating on her husband and more understand that she just walked into a ghost-fuck den where her friend has been having ghost sex for days and her friend's husband was like "oh, I thought she was sick!?!!?"

Why should they? Yes her current state is terrible and she's basically at death's door but the problem is her actions are what caused this. If she didn't cheat none of this would happen. Of course people are going to bring it up because it's actively causing her suffering. This logic you're putting is like getting mad at people for pointing out the fact someone did cocaine and not the why. It's gaslighting to ignore the immoral actions to put more blame on the person for not understanding they're the reason someone's like this when something does go wrong whether it is true or not.

Like, look at that room. Look at it. Look at how obviously messed up Megumi is. She says the room smells like death. It's a depraved, desperate, insane sight, and Megumi's husband is just standing outside that room and not going in.

Expect what exactly was he suppose to do? Force himself in? She's locked the door and every attempt he's made he's shut down. This bitch whining at him that he's lame will come off as disgusting to people because of her actions regardless whether she has a point. And the wife is locking herself in there not wanting to see her husband. He believes her at her word because he's never experienced her acting like this as he said because being vague is not how you communicate with him.

How... how are you getting this so wrong? It's NOT strength. You're literally reading this the opposite way than it's happening.

The husband feels inadequate and shuts down all discussions about his lack of intimacy because of his feelings of inadequacy, yes. But that's not the problem. The problem isn't strength at all; that's what HE thinks the problem is, but it's not. He thinks she's unsatisfied and feels lonely cause he can't dumb 15 loads into her and go all night, when the issue is that he barely talks to her, hugs her, or even holds her hand. She wants to feel like she's loved and appreciated, and she's tried to tell him this but he refuses to listen because he's both too insecure and his ego is in the way. He's sure he's doing the best he can, and is afraid that his best isn't enough; but the problem is he's not even trying.

That is literally strength. Like you say I'm not getting it but I do? You literally just explained a NTR story right then and there. Which lo and behold are popular with woman. Because he lacks strength which when I say this translates to masculine character, frame, confidence. I don't just mean sex drive and thinking I do is willfully ignorant. You said she was comforted by someone who's attentive to her sexual and emotional needs and felt safe? You mean like any NTR story where a wife feels no more love from her husband or perceives she doesn't and gets stolen away by a strong masculine man who gives her what she wants sexually and emotionally? You can't be this dense.

I can tell this story is written by a woman because NTR wife/husband stories follow this formula to a tee. The fact you think I'm missing the point when if anything eveything you said wasn't rebutting me just proved me right.

 

[sixtem]

She wants to feel like she's loved and appreciated, and she's tried to tell him this but he refuses to listen because he's both too insecure and his ego is in the way.

I agree with most of what you're saying, though I disagree a bit on this portion. The husband is terrible at communication, but so is the wife. Part of this can be chalked up to Japanese culture, but it's pretty clear she's not communicated her feelings very well given how far off his understanding of them is. She no longer tries and even lies to him about how things are going (as seen in the first chapter).

The husband does have a complete lack of curiosity, though. He doesn't attempt to pry even when it's for their mutual benefit, he just accepts things at face value since it's easier (which is made worse by his wife being dishonest).

I am an incel

Men are more likely to cheat than women, man. Men are also more likely to act impulsively and irrationally, which is why their injury and crime rates are so high. I don't think using statistics to push gender war nonsense is constructive, but if you're going to act like an expert on "female psychology" then you should at least look at reality first.