You're the type of person that would call the cops when you hear your neighbors having fun bantering with each other because "its obviously domestic abuse".
Dont just ignore my point about frequency and severity.
There is literally not enough evidence to show there is even a remote hint of abuse. We just saw a girl that is really bad with and guarded agaisnt men have whats practically a panic attack over her well founded and legitimate fear of loosing the one man she can get along with and you call her abusive lmao.
Not only does she know her friends had ulterior motives, she knows they could just as easily fall for him and cause trouble in their relationships. Bruh literally the previous chapter shows a couple of the girls consider going after him. The reading comprehension some people display on this site is shockingly awful sometimes.
She never started putting him down or making him feel bad about himself, she basically told him "I dont want other girls to find out how good of a man you are so they dont start chasing you". Fuck me that'd be one hell of an ego boost to get from an attractive woman.
So that must make you the type of person who is okay with domestic abuse, as long as it doesn't happen "too often." Sometimes you just need to throw things at your partner's face, right?
Telling off her friends for their ulterior motives is fine. Getting upset at her boyfriend for daring to let her own friends fix him up, and then forbidding him from ever having other female friends is not.
And "I don't approve of you improving yourself" is absolutely tearing him down.
If you want to argue semantics, she may not be abusing him yet, but she is absolutely exhibiting abusive behavior, multiple times in one evening/chapter.
I can only hope you're defending her because you want a girlfriend to control your life, not because you want to be that controlling partner to someone else.