I don't think you'll ever get married if that's your mentality. WtfThis is why I'll never get married and father a daughter. I'll become the ultimate cuck.
Time + communication + practice = compatibilityIt's refreshing that their first time was clumsy. I never liked "instant mastery" of something that is a learning process. It requires time and communication and practice.
This is also why waiting for marriage is risky. You might find out that you aren't compatible.