@criver
even if people are "comfortable" with something, it doesn't change the objective risks associated with it
You right if everyone is comfortable, it doesn't change the risk. But part of the point is to say the apprehension to the idea of kids being without supervision is more societal norms rather than a rational risk assessment. Thus 1950's America or modern day Japan could see a fiction depiction or real instance or a kid being alone (daytime or nightime) and not find an issue. But today would call the cops or in this manga, feel
squickat a fictional depiction. Now you did mentioned you might actually be American. But my point still stands if you're from a society where the norm would call the police at the sight of a 9 year old outside.
Societal norms aside, part of my argument is the IRL chances are stupidly low. The fear of the stranger abducting a kid is low. But on top of that of the abductions that do happen,
90% of abductions are done between relatives. Of those that remains missing children. The last comprehensive government study found only
115 US children were kidnap by strangers in a year. Keep in mind we are ~70 million are who are under 18 years old in the US. Then keep in mind more that the general rule is Japan's crime rate is much lower. In short, the objective risks associated is low. Nighttime does raises the chance of risk, but our fears towards strangers are vastly overstated.
As far as the aliens go - they are parasites, and I don't believe that the "unfathomable pain" part was emphasized anywhere.
Did you read chapter 8 or chapter 10 What does this looks like to you?
That's looks pretty painful to me. She is literally begging her to be killed.
Whereas some humans will torture others intentionally
While I cannot disagree the how far humanity can torture another , but if we're going to pull in IRL instances, then we have to consider the IRL realities. Namely, the type of kidnappings that could lead to torture that is arguably worse than Flare's friend head being shoved giant spiders legs through her eyes, mouth, and ears even more extremely rare. We're going down to a subset of a subset of a subset. And applying this fear to one night.
Finally, there's the narrative aspect again. This is a Lovecraftian-like Eldritch Abomination story. A fantasy story of facing creatures beyond our comprehension that seen to violate the bodies of the character and seemingly the world. It would b a massive narrative dissonance for story to suddenly change to some white van kidnapping the girls on the first night they ever sneak out. And if we're pulling in IRL realities, then it's worrying about the chance of a subset of a subset of a subset type of event versus facing fictionally "real" aliens that seeks to enter their bodies and have a body count of 6 people.