Wazato Miseteru Kamoi-san? - Vol. 7 Ch. 40

[biologist]

coping mechanism for her intense emotions

Chat, is being an outlet for rebounding bad?
No, i am seriously don't know.

 

[NilLion]

Chat, is being an outlet for rebounding bad?
No, i am seriously don't know.

well, in this case I don't think is that bad as she doesn't feel anything more for the friend anymore ,she just in shock, but if she was still in love it's a problem XD.

 

[loveshonorifics]

Chat, is being an outlet for rebounding bad?
No, i am seriously don't know.

nah, at age 14, we 100% take those. not even close

 

[DMassiv]

this is quite thrilling

 

[v.roderick]

You’re judging a teen’s panicked, immature coping as if it were an adult doing calculated harm. She’s a middle schooler who’s just realized her first love and good friend was dating an adult, and she reacts badly,she lashes out at the woman, and then when the boy she’s now interested in shows up when she's clearly distressed, she kisses him as a coping mechanism for her intense emotions and denies it happened right after. That’s wrong, and she owes him honesty, but calling it “gaslighting” or “stranger sexual assault” is a huge rhetorical leap. It reads more like a messy teenager avoiding facing her feelings and consequences than a predatory person “taking advantage.”

Cool, we disagree. I still think she's a shit person for what she did. We done?

 

[v.roderick]

@NilLion

What I mean is that neither of us accepts each other's point of view so there's no need to further the discussion.

I'm not going to try and convince you. I've stated my case and you've stated yours, neither of us are changing how we perceive the events so unless you've got anything extra you want to say, we're done.

I wish you no Ill will, hope you have a lovely Christmas and a wonderful new year.

 

[Deoxyribo9]

Chat, is being an outlet for rebounding bad?
No, i am seriously don't know.

It depends on the feelings afterwards. For Stowie here, he definitely reciprocated, but also has a further desire to get closer.

Spoiler: Spoilers for later

And well he does push further later. Check back in like 10 chapters.

 

[favine]

She really said. "Oh man, who was that girl?"

 

[Ninoren]

You’re judging a teen’s panicked, immature coping as if it were an adult doing calculated harm. She’s a middle schooler who’s just realized her first love and good friend was dating an adult, and she reacts badly,she lashes out at the woman, and then when the boy she’s now interested in shows up when she's clearly distressed, she kisses him as a coping mechanism for her intense emotions and denies it happened right after. That’s wrong, and she owes him honesty, but calling it “gaslighting” or “stranger sexual assault” is a huge rhetorical leap. It reads more like a messy teenager avoiding facing her feelings and consequences than a predatory person “taking advantage.”

It's not the first time she tramples on Stowie really, but the issue is more the gags conflicting with the romance in my eyes.

Also her being the all beloved character surrounded and close to every guy in the manga, being in love with someone else mid way and offering to go out with him while claiming to love stowie, but then acting the way she does when he even once converses with another girl appears like a giant double standard, but that's partially the gag chapters giving her character a big hit, while making the drama appear less serious.


She was taking advantage of Stowie this chapter though no way to see it any differently really, if you spin the situation around it'd bet it wouldn't just be messy feelings as speaking point 😐

 

[NilLion]

It's not the first time she tramples on Stowie really, but the issue is more the gags conflicting with the romance in my eyes.

Also her being the all beloved character surrounded and close to every guy in the manga, being in love with someone else mid way and offering to go out with him while claiming to love stowie, but then acting the way she does when he even once converses with another girl appears like a giant double standard, but that's partially the gag chapters giving her character a big hit, while making the drama appear less serious.


She was taking advantage of Stowie this chapter though no way to see it any differently really, if you spin the situation around it'd bet it wouldn't just be messy feelings as speaking point 😐

they are teenagers , expecting clear, respectful boundaries and behaviour from kids in middle school is insane , yeah her behaviour is toxic like any confused teenager once was, she can't articulate and be honest with her feelings. this is a messy relationship and that's what makes this story great , is not a standard romcom of lovey dovey or stupid misunderstandings is of people making mistakes trying to navigate their teenage years and trying to understand and be truthful to their feelings. They aren't gonna be good partners.

and the proposal to date her friend was a panicked reaction to try to keep a close friend she had since childhood in her sphere to not lose contact , she likes stowie because that's what her behaviour shows and she never even stated she likes him it's shown with her enthusiams to hang out with him , the focus she puts in their relationship.

 

[zHIST]

Man some people in this comment section are unhinged. It's like Reddit on relationship advice, given out by people who've never been in a healthy relationship.