Dude calm down... Like we will see were the author goes with it but comparing nude images and sex to swimsuits is wild to me. Sure like if they talked about it would make it better and see that they both understand.
It's cool. I'm not saying they're equal. I'm saying they need to agree on what is OK.
As to where the limit of what's OK winds up? That shifts depending on what is happening in society as a whole. And there seems to be a continued tendency to sexualise human bodies, paired with a tendency to cover up said bodies to an extreme extent Same root causes, leading to divergences in mores, and behavior. Sadly, we can see the same things happening in politics, where people demonise the "other" side, instead of talking about the actual issues ...
Me, I'm using speedos when I swim, since bulkier swimming shorts create drag. Some people make fun of that, but I'm there to swim, and it's not indecent.
Also, I'm not saying innocently uploading something from a day out having fun with your friends is evil (although in today's world, maybe it's nice to know whether others are OK with uploaded content?).
What I am saying, is that Chita was expressly uploading the content to get clicks/views/subscriptions. And
that is bad.
Further, it was said that the night pool thing had a bit of a reputation as a "dating spot with benefits", meaning when Chita used night pool as part of her clip name/tags, it signaled that sort of content, further monetizing her friends' bodies.
Also, like you say, they need to talk about it.
They don't need AI assistance to do it. Ask anyone who's ever tried to draw, let alone do it for a living. I don't blame people for hating on AI "art" but jumping on every slight screwup as AI isn't doing artists any favours either. 
