Yancha Gal no Anjou-san - Ch. 208 - Toyoda-san Won't Forgive Cheaters

[SpunkyDragon]

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Definitely one of those "he knew he meant it one way", potentially because of his lack of experience (and possibly confidence) but everyone else heard it differently, yeah.

This chapter's very much a "words mean things and how you say it doesn't mean others hear the same" sort of experience.
And a good lesson to learn over something relatively low-stakes in the grand scheme of things, because communication is important in any relationship - and even when you don't get your intent across, being able to follow up and actually talk things through a second/third/whatever-needed time is just as essential to healthy growth between people.
He's young and this is his first go-around in dating and he's got stuff to figure out, so hopefully Toyoda doesn't hold it over him in an outsized fashion and allows him to actually make the effort to do better. I don't see why she wouldn't, of course, but it's a chance for growth and progression for them as people and as a pair.

Which, makes an interesting parallel to Anjou and Seto, who also have a mismatch in what they expect out of their relationship that requires some talking things through so that they can both be sure that no one's being mislead or even accidentally hurt by the actions of the other.
Toyoda being more...I guess "intense"? than Anjou (who's a bit more easy-going and laidback) adds a neat contrast in how people receive and deal with stuff that causes tension and interpersonal issues. So having these two also needing to "talk it out" and showing the differences in how they all go about it should be interesting.

I feel like in this sense, Toyoda is more like Anjou's mom than Anjou

 

[SpunkyDragon]

Okay now y'all, you might just be a bit heavy handed with that cheating label.

I think, strangely, the manga is somewhat realistic about the kind of absurd things girls get jealous about.
"Don't have girl friends, don't follow girls on insta, don't be too friendly with the waitress" etc

 

[Rialtoir]

See...it's very simple ...

He ask about it and she answer about it ..and it's not a big problem so both can resolve this very quickly...

I not sure why bokuyaba couple can't do it ...mostly Anna ..yet everyone praise for being very wholesome relationships when I see it's very toxic relationships only

the kids in Bokuyaba are younger and even more inmature

 

[Rialtoir]

Definitely one of those "he knew he meant it one way", potentially because of his lack of experience (and possibly confidence) but everyone else heard it differently, yeah.

This chapter's very much a "words mean things and how you say it doesn't mean others hear the same" sort of experience.
And a good lesson to learn over something relatively low-stakes in the grand scheme of things, because communication is important in any relationship - and even when you don't get your intent across, being able to follow up and actually talk things through a second/third/whatever-needed time is just as essential to healthy growth between people.
He's young and this is his first go-around in dating and he's got stuff to figure out, so hopefully Toyoda doesn't hold it over him in an outsized fashion and allows him to actually make the effort to do better. I don't see why she wouldn't, of course, but it's a chance for growth and progression for them as people and as a pair.

Which, makes an interesting parallel to Anjou and Seto, who also have a mismatch in what they expect out of their relationship that requires some talking things through so that they can both be sure that no one's being mislead or even accidentally hurt by the actions of the other.
Toyoda being more...I guess "intense"? than Anjou (who's a bit more easy-going and laidback) adds a neat contrast in how people receive and deal with stuff that causes tension and interpersonal issues. So having these two also needing to "talk it out" and showing the differences in how they all go about it should be interesting.

I think there's far more parallels if you see the couples as gender benders of each other's. Toyoda is the Seto and Inuyama is the Anjou

 

[Nulll]

Why would she be okay with being with a dude who has such little self-esteem that he would denigrate himself like that in an effort to "appease/appeal to her"?

What your bf/ gf thinks about himself/herself doesn’t change what you feel for him/ her. also he isn’t denigrating himsleft just to appease her he was pointing out an impossibility. like asking a thin small guy if he sent mister muscle guy who is three times his size to the hospital. no matter how pacifistic the guy is would he first point out that it is physically impossible for that to happen before even accounting that he is not violent.

also about

“What does that say about Toyoda that she's willing to be with a guy who has such a poor image of himself”

what should it say about her, what she likes about him is hers, not his so even if he doesn’t consider himself attractive. she does.

would you use this logic on a guy to say that if his girlfriend doesn’t consider herself attractive he should leave her?

 

[GIN_8_6_]

Afterwards Toyoda pampered Inuyama a lot 😂 😂