@Dragoniitti Yeah, clipping tails and particularly declawing are awful things. I'm not enthused about some of the similar things they do to dogs either. D'you know that dobermans naturally have cute floppy ears? They do
surgery to make them stand up and look menacing; it's gross.
@Flippy
@MoonlightwolfchanX @JohnnyC @ScherisMarie @Sakai OK, I guess it's a lot more common than I thought. Although usually not as extreme as you often get it in manga.
In my experience, the way to deal with a cat you don't know is actually surprisingly similar to with a dog: Go slow; sudden movements are scary. Hunker down rather than bending over; makes you a little less big and intimidating. As your first move, let it sniff your hand. Like dogs, they get a lot of info from scent, and they're curious; getting that sniff in satisfies their curiosity and puts them at ease, makes you a bit more of a known quantity. Wait till it's done sniffing.
Then, turn your hand around and start scratching kind of a neutral, easy to reach area of the cat's cheek. If it's not into any of that, it's a fairly non-threatening place to start so it probably will just step aside instead of whacking you one, even if it's a grumpy cat. If it's into it, it will press into your hand and shift to bring your scratching fingers to bear on its favourite place. That way you don't have to figure out if it likes behind the ears, under the chin, or even throat area--cats will maneuver to get what they want. Once you've got a cat pressing against your scratching hand, it will generally be fine with some stroking as well.