Ive already read a few yuri stories with S&M involved. But always reach the same point where the fact that i cant relate makes me unable to actually enjoy it as im suppose to. Its so alien to me. Mostly because it feels so impersonal even tho its absolutely not.
Definitely because my concept of showing affection is completely different and when theres not a single kiss or similar it just feels like a sport to me. I understand it, but i just cant feel it. Might just not be my cup of tea.