What about women that are born with a hymen that is open enough to not rip during sex (I am not sure, but i think some may be even born without one)? Would women stop being virgins if their hymen gets torn due to trauma (or masturbation)? Or would you consider women who went through hymenoplasty virgins?
Well, more like, was interested in your opinion on some edge cases. "Virginity"="having a hymen" does sound like a consistent logic, until you bring in the male virginity or anal/oral/whatever-non-vaginal virginity.
You can't honestly think using a dildo counts as losing your virginity do you? No wonder you're all calling me wrong, you guys don't know what sex is. Next you're going to tell me a guy loses his virginity if he uses a fleshlight and if you say not then justify to me how that's any different from a girl using a dildo.
It certainly counts if the dildo is used on you by someone else. What the hell is wrong with you? Why are you so obsessed with this nonsense. Gay sex is sex. Lesbian sex is sex. Hetero sex is sex. Get over it and then for the love of mike get out of the house and get a life already.