Imasara desu ga, Osananajimi o Suki ni Natte Shimaimashita - Ch. 26.6 - My Happy Date (Normal Version)

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The hilarious thing about this series is that Hikari fans and Yuu fans both want the same thing. Yuu fans want his character to have nothing to do with Hikari, and Hikari fans want her to have nothing to do with Yuu. So glad all of us can agree on that at least. All characters suck here.
I personally think that the original premise of Hikari and Yuu having a romance is still fine. While Hikari is flawed for how she handled this incident, the issue doesnt lie with them, but rather with Yami. I still maintain that Yuu has done nothing wrong throughout this series so far. He's actually handled things remarkably maturely for his age, considering the absolutely terrible way his first girlfriend has treated him.
 
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Oh yeah, because no victim has ever defended their abuser before /s. Note that this incident is literally after months of ghosting from his first girlfriend, someone who routinely lied to him during their relationship and who used him for her own pleasure. Abuse is exactly the right word to use for how Yami has treated Yuu.

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I mean, I get it, you think Yami is perfect and that Yuu is the devil, so you would probably not even consider her slitting his throat to be assault. But she did assault him. And she did kiss him after he was about to leave her. I think it's clear that he never welcomed this kiss. He never returned her kiss. He was only stunned and sad after having been yelled at, hit and forcibly kissed when he never asked for any of it.
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She was present at the door, hearing Yami yell all kinds of shit at him. She could hear the slap. And, most importantly, she talked to Yami afterwards, learning what a piece of shit Yami was to him.
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She hears how Yami talks about him, lies or not, she knows how she has treated him, she heard their exchange. Yet, she is more worried about letting Yami be happy with Yuu than the fact that she is clearly abusive towards him. She knows that Yami is lying to herself, but she also knows that Yami is hurting Yuu. She literally admonishes her for it. And she is clearly struggling with being honest with herself, knowing that she doesnt want Yuu to be taken by Yami.

Here's how she is treating this, after finding all of this out:
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Her feelings are understandable, but she is a very bad friend to Yuu. And she is still acting like a spoiled brat, expecting him to come to her after she rejected him so coldly. She knows that he was hurt on that day. She knows that Yami treated him like shit. She has all the information she needs.

The fact still remains, that in literally all of this, only Yuu has been victimized by the other two. Yami, for obvious reasons already stated, and Hikari for not looking out for him and coldly rejecting him, knowing what he went through, literally pushing him onto the ground. He has done NOTHING to either of them.

I said this as a joke:

Yall literally proved me right. I've changed my mind, I'm impressed with the determination yall have to stick to your love for this Yami character. Even after being shown unequivocally horrible actions from her to the point that pretty much no one is able to defend her actions anymore, yall still stick to it. Though, I guess it comes down to directing hate towards Yuu instead to avoid speaking about the Yami sized elephant in the room, because she is impossible to defend at this point.

I know that me writing this all down is pointless. Even if Yami murdered his entire family and if Hikari spat in his face because he was sad over it, yall would still find a reason to claim that he is the one at fault and they did nothing wrong. That's just how yall operate, I've seen it before. But it is impressive, just how far yall are willing to go to keep this delusion alive after being shown just how terrible Yami is.
I already stated it before, Yami is in every way the worse one here. Not even comparable to Yuu. I also saga in a previous chapter’s comms, at this point she can’t be saved by Yuu and Hikari anymore, she willingly pushed them away several times already. Don’t make me say what I haven’t said, I’m not a Yami simp.
That doesn’t make Yuu a saint who got abused. The girl he dated before suddenly came back after ghosting him, to slap him then kissing him. Hikari saw that kiss (and nothing else, she didn’t heard their conv since left asap). Then Yuu came back hours later, saying nonsense like her got lost, even though she saw him in the room she told him to wait. How can you blame her to be mad at this ? He also noticed she wasn’t the same before, he tried to confess. She was happy, but that thing she saw was to hard to shallow, she pushed him and said he was a liar, cuz huh, he lied duh.
The 20 chapters before were literally another kind of manga, with a cute romance between childhood friends. You can’t blame Hikari for not confessing back then.
Yuu is still after all that, still defending Yami against everyone while saying Hikari will be fine. He knows what she saw, can deduce what she thought seeing this. He still only worries about Yami. Does he even love Hikari at this point ?
 
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Sometimes I have to wonder if I'm reading the same comic as everyone else. The fact that the ppl leaving comments on this thread have real lives and jobs and families, but post such coal text walls over pointless shit is mind blowing to me.
I missed several chapters bloodbaths by reading it days later, let me enjoy this
 
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I already stated it before, Yami is in every way the worse one here. Not even comparable to Yuu. I also saga in a previous chapter’s comms, at this point she can’t be saved by Yuu and Hikari anymore, she willingly pushed them away several times already. Don’t make me say what I haven’t said, I’m not a Yami simp.
That doesn’t make Yuu a saint who got abused. The girl he dated before suddenly came back after ghosting him, to slap him then kissing him. Hikari saw that kiss (and nothing else, she didn’t heard their conv since left asap). Then Yuu came back hours later, saying nonsense like her got lost, even though she saw him in the room she told him to wait. How can you blame her to be mad at this ? He also noticed she wasn’t the same before, he tried to confess. She was happy, but that thing she saw was to hard to shallow, she pushed him and said he was a liar, cuz huh, he lied duh.
The 20 chapters before were literally another kind of manga, with a cute romance between childhood friends. You can’t blame Hikari for not confessing back then.
Yuu is still after all that, still defending Yami against everyone while saying Hikari will be fine. He knows what she saw, can deduce what she thought seeing this. He still only worries about Yami. Does he even love Hikari at this point ?

A guy being led on for months, made to believe that he was loved, abruptly ghosted, having his heart broken, then, after he very maturely moves on, having the chick show up to his school festival, assault him physically and sexually, gaslight him and blame him, specifically in front of his crush to ruin his new relationship. That's all A OK and is to be expected of any guy to endure. It's no problemo.

But a guy missing an appointment with his crush and not directly explaining that he was violently assaulted by a crazy ex that broke his heart? Biggest villain in the series, straight to the gallows.

If you agree that what Yami did was wrong, how can you claim that Yuu wasnt abused by her? Your point has mainly been to claim that the victim was at fault, rather than expressing desire for Yami as a character, which makes it all the more confusing. If you dont simp for Yami, what reason do you have to take such a blatantly wrong stance about abuse? I guess you like Hikari, so you would rather blame Yuu than Hikari for the current circumstances? I like Hikari, too, but I'm not gonna be blind to her flaws.

The guy had his heart broken, ghosted for months, then has his crazy ex show up at his school during his confession night and assault him. He's supposed to just trauma dump all of that on his crush that he's gonna confess to? A person he thinks has absolutely nothing to do with this? It's an insanely personal and difficult matter for him.

The fact that he sees that his ex is clearly not right in the head and wants to help her despite it all just goes to show what a good person he is. He is not jumping back into a relationship with her. That may happen later, but that's not something he is guilty of right now.

If you can blame Yuu for hiding the fact that he was just assaulted by a crazy ex from Hikari, then you should be even harsher on her for literally knowing about everything between him and said ex, yet not even trying to look out for him. Not trying to understand him during the confession, not even seeing if he's OK as just a friend. She's had days since that event, yet she is still acting like a spoiled brat even after his apology (an apology that she honestly didnt deserve). Throughout all of this, he is the one who has been hurt the most.

Yes, Hikari's feelings during that incident are valid. But her response is not fair towards Yuu, at all. So she's wrong for that. And she's done nothing to advance their relationship, herself. They are nothing more than friends at this point.

Overall, unless Yuu genuinely tries to get back together with Yami later, he has been the most fair and mature character in this entire series. He's not the most interesting character, perhaps because the story has barely given his perspective, but his actions have been remarkably mature and goodhearted considering how dirty he was done.
 
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Didnt you ask for people to turn up the volume on the comments lmao. These texts dont take much out of my time and certainly dont stop me from also working and living a life. Enjoying manga, arguing about manga, it's all part of my recreation.

IMO, it's one thing to enjoy a dumpster fire, but it gets a bit more serious when people genuinely victim blame and express pretty terrible values. Such as downplaying abuse and assault, claiming that the victim was wrong because they "didnt fight back" or "let themselves be led on." All while claiming that the perpetrator was the real victim. It's backwards af.

Someone joking and saying "I can fix Yami" is lighthearted fun. Nothing wrong with liking a flawed character, as long as you treat her as such. Someone saying "Yami did nothing wrong and her victim is actually at fault" is decidedly less fun. The manga is fake, it's just a story. But the people claiming these things are real and actually think like this.

I usually stay out of these conversations, after all of those months of Yami simping with an overwhelming amount of people engaging in similar victim blaming and excusing Yami's behavior, but I think it's important to sometimes call it out and genuinely iron out the facts that we've been shown in the manga so far. When people love a character, whether it be for a fetish or whatever reason, it's easy to be blind to what's actually being written.
please keep going. i love it keep up the good work. thanks for the meal
 
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guys, you dont understand... you NEED to pick a side... getting entertainment from the manga requires a blood oath to waffling in the comment section! I'm doing my part, make sure you return the favor.
There can't be ambiguity as to which characters are justified or unjustified in their feelings or who's got the right intentions... Go for the kill! no mercy! Pillage! Pillage!
 
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please keep going. i love it keep up the good work. thanks for the meal
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Nah but I'm not really picking a side. While I would have preferred it if this manga was just Hikari and Yuu, Yami is an ok character, if treated as a negative character that can be redeemed. That's how I feel she has been portrayed so far, for the most part. The author has made it very clear what a bad influence she has been on our main duo. Beyond that, I see no reason why Yuu and Hikari cant get together while Yami redeems herself.

While all of these characters have a justification for why they may feel some way or why they harm others, I think it still stands to reason that some of them are objectively more right than others. That's why I'm saying that Yuu, despite readers seemingly wanting him dead, is actually the only one that has been harmed by any of the other two. Hikari was hurt by Yami and Yuu was hurt by Yami. In this latest incident, Hikari is treating Yuu unfairly. While these characters have their reasons for being the way they are, it doesnt erase the fact that they have actively harmed others.

To state that the sky is in fact blue and not red is not the same as taking a black and white side 🤷‍♂️
 
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If you agree that what Yami did was wrong, how can you claim that Yuu wasnt abused by her? Your point has mainly been to claim that the victim was at fault, rather than expressing desire for Yami as a character, which makes it all the more confusing. If you dont simp for Yami, what reason do you have to take such a blatantly wrong stance about abuse? I guess you like Hikari, so you would rather blame Yuu than Hikari for the current circumstances? I like Hikari, too, but I'm not gonna be blind to her flaws.

The guy had his heart broken, ghosted for months, then has his crazy ex show up at his school during his confession night and assault him. He's supposed to just trauma dump all of that on his crush that he's gonna confess to? A person he thinks has absolutely nothing to do with this? It's an insanely personal and difficult matter for him.

The fact that he sees that his ex is clearly not right in the head and wants to help her despite it all just goes to show what a good person he is. He is not jumping back into a relationship with her. That may happen later, but that's not something he is guilty of right now.

If you can blame Yuu for hiding the fact that he was just assaulted by a crazy ex from Hikari, then you should be even harsher on her for literally knowing about everything between him and said ex, yet not even trying to look out for him. Not trying to understand him during the confession, not even seeing if he's OK as just a friend. She's had days since that event, yet she is still acting like a spoiled brat even after his apology (an apology that she honestly didnt deserve). Throughout all of this, he is the one who has been hurt the most.

Yes, Hikari's feelings during that incident are valid. But her response is not fair towards Yuu, at all. So she's wrong for that. And she's done nothing to advance their relationship, herself. They are nothing more than friends at this point.

Overall, unless Yuu genuinely tries to get back together with Yami later, he has been the most fair and mature character in this entire series. He's not the most interesting character, perhaps because the story has barely given his perspective, but his actions have been remarkably mature and goodhearted considering how dirty he was done.
Hikari knows Yuu and Yami loved each other. She knows Yami still likes him, even with all the shit she said to her. As I said before, she doesn’t believe everything Yami told her, this is why she said to Yami that she shouldn’t disrespect Yuu. She believes he wouldn’t date her if they didn’t love each other (and she’s right. Hikari is basically a saint who can forgive pretty much everything, even someone that adding her as a prostitute. You can’t expect her to go back to Yuu when she doesn’t know about his feelings.
The fault their relationship didn’t progress before lies on Yuu as much as it lies on her too. She did nothing to advance the relationship except dates and such, as the 20 firsts chapters showed. Not her fault if the tone changed after. Didn’t help that Yuu behaved like he didn’t had any experience too.
Yuu should be angry at Yami for what she did. She basically destroyed his relationship with Hikari, after she ghosted him for years and he still defends her, how « fair ». He still has strong feelings for her, be it friendship or love no one knows. Hikari doesn’t know either and since their feelings are now out, you can’t expect her to act as friends afterwards.
I believe that if Yuu didn’t say there was nothing left between him and Yami (i believe, did check) when he apologized to Hikari is because he doesn’t know himself. He and Yami never properly broke up and now she is back, he’s confused. Hikari isn’t the one who knows everything about this mess, she doesn’t know how Yuu really feels. Only Yuu can have the whole picture, if his feelings are clear.
 
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is actually the only one that has been harmed by any of the other two
Even Yuu acknowledges that he hurt Hikari and Aya. Whether it's fair that they feel hurt by his actions is a whole different discussion, but it does not negate that Hikari is hurt by his lying and Aya is hurt by what she perceives as him not being as in love with her as she is with him.
 
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Even Yuu acknowledges that he hurt Hikari and Aya. Whether it's fair that they feel hurt by his actions is a whole different discussion, but it does not negate that Hikari is hurt by his lying and Aya is hurt by what she perceives as him not being as in love with her as she is with him.
Yeah, because he tends to blame himself unfairly. How in the world did he hurt Aya? You'd have to be from another planet to think that, basically subscribing to her unhinged gaslighting that she poured out against him when she assaulted him. Seriously. Are you saying that them getting their feelings hurt over the circumstances (that they mostly created themselves) is a valid reason for them to treat him like this? So far, the only person that has actually been hurt by any of the others is Yuu. Him "lying" is a completely unreasonable accusation, as I've already made clear before.
 
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Hikari knows Yuu and Yami loved each other. She knows Yami still likes him, even with all the shit she said to her. As I said before, she doesn’t believe everything Yami told her, this is why she said to Yami that she shouldn’t disrespect Yuu. She believes he wouldn’t date her if they didn’t love each other (and she’s right. Hikari is basically a saint who can forgive pretty much everything, even someone that adding her as a prostitute. You can’t expect her to go back to Yuu when she doesn’t know about his feelings.
The fault their relationship didn’t progress before lies on Yuu as much as it lies on her too. She did nothing to advance the relationship except dates and such, as the 20 firsts chapters showed. Not her fault if the tone changed after. Didn’t help that Yuu behaved like he didn’t had any experience too.
Yuu should be angry at Yami for what she did. She basically destroyed his relationship with Hikari, after she ghosted him for years and he still defends her, how « fair ». He still has strong feelings for her, be it friendship or love no one knows. Hikari doesn’t know either and since their feelings are now out, you can’t expect her to act as friends afterwards.
I believe that if Yuu didn’t say there was nothing left between him and Yami (i believe, did check) when he apologized to Hikari is because he doesn’t know himself. He and Yami never properly broke up and now she is back, he’s confused. Hikari isn’t the one who knows everything about this mess, she doesn’t know how Yuu really feels. Only Yuu can have the whole picture, if his feelings are clear.
Hikari was there when Yami slapped Yuu. She at the very least heard her yell at him. She actually talked to Yami afterwards and heard from her very own mouth how she sees Yuu and how she has treated him. It doesnt matter how much she knows about Yami lying to herself, she still knows that Yami treated Yuu this way. That he was some "loser for her to use." Do you really think that Hikari is so stupid that she genuinely thinks that that was some happy reunion for Yuu? She should be able to tell that the person who actively betrayed both her and Yuu was not a good partner to Yuu.

If anything, this was a very difficult situation for Yuu and I dont see how exactly it is his fault that it ended up this way. I've said it before and I say it again: it makes zero sense that he would tell Hikari about the assault that he just experienced with a crazy ex that he thinks she doesnt even know. It's in his past and he is moving on. In every instance, he is bending over backwards to accommodate both Yami's and Hikari's feelings while trying to move on with his romance with Hikari, yet he isnt receiving even the most basic decency in return from either of them. That's why I'm saying that he is the only one here that has genuinely been victimized by the others.

As for Hikari not confessing earlier, unlike Yuu, she has actively tried to avoid seeming like she likes him. It's teenage awkwardness, sure, but it does lead to a situation where Yuu went on with another relationship and with them just remaining as friends. They are just friends and she made zero attempts at changing that fact, the moment he pours his soul out and confesses to her after having an old wound freshly re-opened, yet the only thing she can do is coldly reject him? That's basically putting in negative effort towards someone she supposedly loves. She knows Yami and talks to her afterwards, she has the cards that Yuu doesnt. Yet, even after finding everything out, she is unable to even extend an olive branch? To reach out to him? She acts like a spoiled brat, once again waiting for him to reach out to her. As much as I like her, she is being inconsiderate here.
 
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Are you saying that them getting their feelings hurt over the circumstances (that they mostly created themselves) is a valid reason for them to treat him like this?
The only thing I wrote was that Yuu acknowledged that he hurt Hikari and Aya.
 
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The only thing I wrote was that Yuu acknowledged that he hurt Hikari and Aya.
Yeah, but you cant seriously be using that as proof that he did? He's clearly taking on blame for something he didnt do. Again, how in the world can any sane person claim that he hurt Aya? That would be like looking at the scene where she slapped him and blamed him for her ghosting him and thinking "yeah, she's right, he should have just fought harder to find her when she ghosted him, it's totally his fault that she ghosted him." Like, come on, this is an absurd conversation. She quite literally abused him, not the other way around.
 
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What did I miss, what did I miss? Did both side slaughter each other?

Damn, at this point the only saving grace of this story is the comment section lmao. Actual entertaining to read the comment after work. Paragraph after paragraph of people who truly believe in what they write is peak, not just some junky mess that write by some teenage that doesn't even have faith on what they spit out.
 
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What did I miss, what did I miss? Did both side slaughter each other?

Damn, at this point the only saving grace of this story is the comment section lmao. Actual entertaining to read the comment after work. Paragraph after paragraph of people who truly believe in what they write is peak, not just some junky mess that write by some teenage that doesn't even have faith on what they spit out.
This time comments are terrible. No discussion of the chapter whatsoever, just some meta shitflinging and
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Yeah, but you cant seriously be using that as proof that he did? He's clearly taking on blame for something he didnt do.
Even if I were to agree with you that it's not his fault and their feelings aren't justified, the narrative makes clear that Hikari and Aya feel hurt by Yuu's actions and that Yuu acknowledges that they feel hurt because of his actions.
 
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Nothing happens that we didn't already know about? Also it's usually like us and port going in circles & we already discussed this chapter to death.
When a chapter drops, people usually leave some comments about what happened and use chapter's contents to support their arguments. But here it just went to "who is to blame" without any regards to what's in the chapter, absolutely detached from it.
 
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But here it just went to "who is to blame" without any regards to what's in the chapter, absolutely detached from it.
I think the argument jumped off from Aya's internal monologue about how she doesn't want Yuu to just give in - far as I can tell, that spiraled into "does her toxicity negate his agency?"

I haven't jumped in b/c I read Aya's comment the way I've been consistently reading Aya's attitude - that Aya is reading Yuu's going w/ the flow attitude as "he doesn't care" b/c the model of love Aya's grown up w/ (and that she's displaying to Yuu) is her mom's codependent all consuming version. It's not that she wants him to hit her (I think that's a strange translation), it's that she wants proof he loves her so much he's willing to do things he really doesn't want to for her - so far all her asks have been things he doesn't really have a reason to say no to. (& I maintain that the movie isn't really him saying no b/c the reasons he gives are why he doesn't think she's being serious in her ask - she chose the movie and bought at least her ticket - and her actual whim is the movie).

ETA: w/ a side of being willing to put himself on the line by being honest w/ her, even if it risks a fight. This is the dynamic w/ Hikari - where Hikari forgives her for the prank but also blows up at her. Even after 41, Aya still desperately wants to be Hikari's friend - Hikari getting mad at her isn't the deal breaker Yuu's afraid it would be. ETA 2: Basically standard teen boundary pushing stuff - many kids want proof that their people won't leave just b/c they're being difficult/things are difficult. Especially common in folks who've suffered some level of childhood neglect/trauma.

tldr: Aya's the type of broken that can't handle when things are easy/going well.
 
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