Oh yeah, because no victim has ever defended their abuser before /s. Note that this incident is literally after months of ghosting from his first girlfriend, someone who routinely lied to him during their relationship and who used him for her own pleasure. Abuse is exactly the right word to use for how Yami has treated Yuu.
I mean, I get it, you think Yami is perfect and that Yuu is the devil, so you would probably not even consider her slitting his throat to be assault. But she did assault him. And she did kiss him after he was about to leave her. I think it's clear that he never welcomed this kiss. He never returned her kiss. He was only stunned and sad after having been yelled at, hit and forcibly kissed when he never asked for any of it.
She was present at the door, hearing Yami yell all kinds of shit at him. She could hear the slap. And, most importantly, she talked to Yami afterwards, learning what a piece of shit Yami was to him.
She hears how Yami talks about him, lies or not, she knows how she has treated him, she heard their exchange. Yet, she is more worried about letting Yami be happy with Yuu than the fact that she is
clearly abusive towards him. She knows that Yami is lying to herself, but she also knows that Yami is hurting Yuu. She literally admonishes her for it. And she is clearly struggling with being honest with herself, knowing that she doesnt want Yuu to be taken by Yami.
Here's how she is treating this, after finding all of this out:
Her feelings are understandable, but she is a
very bad friend to Yuu. And she is still acting like a spoiled brat, expecting him to come to her after she rejected him so coldly. She knows that he was hurt on that day. She knows that Yami treated him like shit. She has all the information she needs.
The fact still remains, that in literally all of this, only Yuu has been victimized by the other two. Yami, for obvious reasons already stated, and Hikari for not looking out for him and coldly rejecting him, knowing what he went through, literally pushing him onto the ground. He has done NOTHING to either of them.
I said this as a joke:
Yall literally proved me right. I've changed my mind, I'm impressed with the determination yall have to stick to your love for this Yami character. Even after being shown unequivocally horrible actions from her to the point that pretty much no one is able to defend her actions anymore, yall still stick to it. Though, I guess it comes down to directing hate towards Yuu instead to avoid speaking about the Yami sized elephant in the room, because she is impossible to defend at this point.
I know that me writing this all down is pointless. Even if Yami murdered his entire family and if Hikari spat in his face because he was sad over it, yall would still find a reason to claim that he is the one at fault and they did nothing wrong. That's just how yall operate, I've seen it before. But it is impressive, just how far yall are willing to go to keep this delusion alive after being shown just how terrible Yami is.