Haimiya-senpai wa Kowakute Kawaii - Ch. 41

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You're conflating "triggered trauma response" with "delayed-onset PTSD". A trauma trigger, by definition, is an unexpected response to an external stimuli that leads to the physiological reaction.
They're not conflating them. They're interwoven. It's in the name. A trauma trigger requires a trauma history, and trauma histories have signs, however minor.

Kurose has had no signs that would indicate a history severe enough to elicit this kind of trauma response, despite repeatedly being exposed to similar stimuli throughout this entire band arc. Ffs, the moment they approached him he would've been triggered if it's this severe.

It's not realistic, and it's just bad writing.
 
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They're not conflating them. They're interwoven. It's in the name. A trauma trigger requires a trauma history, and trauma histories have signs, however minor.

Kurose has had no signs that would indicate a history severe enough to elicit this kind of trauma response, despite repeatedly being exposed to similar stimuli throughout this entire band arc. Ffs, the moment they approached him he would've been triggered if it's this severe.

It's not realistic, and it's just bad writing.
You're absolutely conflating two things. If you actually read the research you said you're studying you'd know that a "triggered trauma response" is UNEXPECTED. Kurose isn't a PTSD patient suffering from chronic anxiety and this incident isn't some long-time build up of someone who's been suffering for years. It's an unexpected reaction triggered by the words, situation, and a multitude of other stimuli that happened to set off this reaction.

Even in the case of a fire victim being triggered by grill smoke, they may not be triggered by ALL grill smoke. They may have gone to 13 different cookouts with friends and family and shown 0 signs of trauma from the fire, but that 14th one was on the same day of the week as the fire, at roughly the same time as the fire, and the blend of scents from the fire and the food happened to blend in just the right way to set their brain into "Omfg we're in a fire, gtfo!" And they are sent into a trauma response, UNEXPECTEDLY, from the trigger.

For someone who claims to specialize in trauma you sure don't understand how triggered trauma responses work. I suggest you talk to your professors and actually learn about it.

Regardless, the trauma response was the "hook" and not the "payoff". We have yet to see the payoff so how well it's handled remains to be seen. As it stands, this was a textbook example of a triggered trauma response with all of the same physiological signs after the fact.
 
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You're absolutely conflating two things. If you actually read the research you said you're studying you'd know that a "triggered trauma response" is UNEXPECTED. Kurose isn't a PTSD patient suffering from chronic anxiety and this incident isn't some long-time build up of someone who's been suffering for years. It's an unexpected reaction triggered by the words, situation, and a multitude of other stimuli that happened to set off this reaction.
It is because I have read the research and assisted in developing trauma research that I am confident in my stance. Using uncontrolled research that can only be supported with anecdotal reports of experiences and prior lack of symptoms does not constitute a scientific basis for "unexpected."

Violent and life-threatening trauma reactions are also different from social trauma reactions, so your example about a fire victim is different than this fictional manga scenario, but that's an entire rabbit hole we don't need to go down.

Honestly, it doesn't matter. I don't know why I'm spending so much time trying to discuss this on a manga forum.
 
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I'm pretty sure MC has a sad past tied to his guitar playing. It's definitely some middle school trauma :notlikethis:

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Middleschool trauma is the worst trauma. (Speaking from experience.)
 
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Sorry in advance this turned out to be so much more than I intended

I never really intended to comment on anything I've ever read but felt like this one deserved it a lil, both sides of the discussion are valid obviously since this sudden tone shift comes up with no warning, at the very least slight cracks in ao's resolve over time showing a glimpse of why he's such an anxious mess would've been dope BUT i think sometimes it gets forgotten that just because it hasn't been shown yet doesn't mean it can't exist, if that makes any dumb sense, anxiety and the subsequent affects of it when it gets really bad can rear up like this out of nowhere, he was doing fine because he was getting distracted by how fun everything was, he also clearly loves music, but then it became all too real and for him it suddenly felt like there was so much pressure weighing on him, ofc like a lot of others agree with it'll be a pretty bad move if the author decides to do the cliche of "you can do it because you have all of us your new friends behind you" personally I think it'd be a little cooler if those throwaway lines where his sisters joke about taking him to the hospital came back and weren't actually them joking but being serious because they know more of his past

Oof probably too much of a paragraph monster but never rlly comment on stuff so my bad 😅
 
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Huh... this trauma talk thread has really exploded.
Imma wait for someone who has actual experience with delayed-onset PTSD to see the real answers.

Yeah, that psych guy is a researcher, but I trust first hand experiences more.
If that ask doesn't offend them tho.

Yes, you reading this. If you experienced said kind of PTSD, please feel free to share your experience.
But if you do not want to share for personal or private reasons, I totally understand. Have a great day.
 
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What the hell is up with the writing??? This would've been much better taken in if they actually had sprinkled more of his trauma here and there WHILE he was working with them. Suddenly dropping this at the last second feels so out of touch.
 

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