@Enyss Honestly in my opinion, the ex-boyfriend is worse. The ex-GF is just annoyingly high maintenance, while the ex-BF seems to be subtly emotionally manipulative. Always suggesting her to act a certain way to be a "better girl", and guilting her into waking up earlier to talk to him.
@davidbobby888 Totally agree with you like obvious emotional manipulation if not controlling behavior to make her conform to his ideal woman because he likes her looks not her personality, the ex-GF was just really really high maintainice.