I want to clarify something...
I am not as triggered or bothers by the rape thing as people might think.
I will just be bothered because I know that it's going to be portrayed as: "she is hot. He should feel lucky that she did it to him."
I feel like if the roles were reversed, everyone would think of him as a scumbag even if he was hot, but because she is a woman and even a pretty woman, everyone is just going to ignore it and even shame him if he called her out...
This inequality in treatment is what bothers me and everyone else here.
In fact, I am actually a bit surprised by what I pressume is: the reaction of feminists or female empowerment supporters here. You wanted men to be more aware of the "rape culture", well there you go! They are much more aware of it! Now you are shaming them when they call it out without bias?
But I bet it's different when it's one of you, isn't it?