personally i would be pretty mad if my best friend yelled some homophobic bs at me then came back a few days later essentially saying "it's still disgusting BUT I refuse to drop this friendship because it's you." The whole 'i don't like gay people but you're an exception' mentality gives me such an ick.
suddenly kissing people without consent is VERY not okay either tho 🤨🤨 anygays sorry to be a party pooper, but bl in general has so many infuriating tropes lol 🤦♀️