Idk why but I have a feeling the author really doesn't rly like guys. some kind of pattern recognition
The first three men that got sucked out were all shitty people and then lily, (le woman), comes in and yep she's literally perfect.
The part about the pool about being a women-only pool is not really a problem, but like why even have that detail when it isn't relevant at all to anything happening, just make me think of the pattern even more
The husband of the mama-ccubus was also some trashy ass guy with as far as i can see nothing redeeming about him (reformed thou).
It's not really a problem but it does take away some of my enjoyment of it, honestly i hope I'm just over analyzing it.