Ao no Hana, Utsuwa no Mori - Vol. 8 Ch. 37
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"Why don't you go with him?"
"No, because reasons and reasons. I know! I'll just break up with him!"
nooooooo
"No, because reasons and reasons. I know! I'll just break up with him!"
nooooooo
Ay bro, what the fuck?
Aiight naw, fuck Aoko for real. And I don't really mean that, I do enjoy these characters and how well written this story has been...
...But this is verging on drama for the sake of drama. And a level of self-sabotage I hate seeing.
Seriously: "I don't want you to go, because of my anxieties. But also, I can't go with you for a bunch of reasons I just made up on the spot. But also, I want you to go, instead of you staying, we should just break up." Unreal selfish behavior with no consideration for what her partner wants or feels.
Aiight naw, fuck Aoko for real. And I don't really mean that, I do enjoy these characters and how well written this story has been...
...But this is verging on drama for the sake of drama. And a level of self-sabotage I hate seeing.
Seriously: "I don't want you to go, because of my anxieties. But also, I can't go with you for a bunch of reasons I just made up on the spot. But also, I want you to go, instead of you staying, we should just break up." Unreal selfish behavior with no consideration for what her partner wants or feels.
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This woman seriously needs therapy…
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Real shit omg 😭
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I genuinely hate the way aoko is handling this situation, you hold him back from going to Finland, he decides not to go because he LOVES YOU that much, you realize your mistake, then decide to break up with him.
The entire time tats you has been certain and sure of his desicions but for her it’s another insecurity LEFT AND RIGHT making the situation muddier and muddier each chapter.
Tatsuki has already lost a loved one before, why else do you think he would be bending his back for aoko in such a situation, and all you can do is BREAK UP WITH HIM AND THERES A MUCH EASIER SOLUTION OF JUST GOING TO FINLAND WITH HIM.
The entire time tats you has been certain and sure of his desicions but for her it’s another insecurity LEFT AND RIGHT making the situation muddier and muddier each chapter.
Tatsuki has already lost a loved one before, why else do you think he would be bending his back for aoko in such a situation, and all you can do is BREAK UP WITH HIM AND THERES A MUCH EASIER SOLUTION OF JUST GOING TO FINLAND WITH HIM.
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OMG this chapter made me so mad.
At first I understood her trauma and her anxiety, then in the onsen she had to say "I don't want to leave my job just to follow him" like, BITCH???????????? WTF???
That man gave up on a big opportunity FOR YOU!!!
Instead of listening to her BFF's advise about TALKING IT OVER TO REACH THE BEST SOLUTION LIKE ADULTS, she just went nuclear and break up?????????
WTF Aoko?????
Him going to Finland AS PLANNED and her waiting on the mass production AS PLANNED would be the perfect cooling off period for their honeymoon phase.
Aoko said it herself, blaming it on the fucking bear will do nothing and this is her 'me' problem.
Now that I've rage-typed and calmed down, probably it is the best for them to break up.
She is not ready for a mature relationship.
At first I understood her trauma and her anxiety, then in the onsen she had to say "I don't want to leave my job just to follow him" like, BITCH???????????? WTF???
That man gave up on a big opportunity FOR YOU!!!
Instead of listening to her BFF's advise about TALKING IT OVER TO REACH THE BEST SOLUTION LIKE ADULTS, she just went nuclear and break up?????????
WTF Aoko?????
Him going to Finland AS PLANNED and her waiting on the mass production AS PLANNED would be the perfect cooling off period for their honeymoon phase.
Aoko said it herself, blaming it on the fucking bear will do nothing and this is her 'me' problem.
Now that I've rage-typed and calmed down, probably it is the best for them to break up.
She is not ready for a mature relationship.
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OMG this chapter is making me so angry 😡. How does she not understand him?? 😞
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thank you for the translation!!
thank you for the translation!!
Honestly, I get it. I also get the frustration from so many readers, but I get what she's thinking.
Everyone was shouting "why not go with him!?" for chapters (including myself sometimes), but this chapter explained why quite well. She's got other things she wants to do that she doesn't want to drop for a month long journey to another country. She's also not able to just "get over" her past trauma. And that's why she thinks of breaking up.
Because even if she could go this time, she couldn't necessarily go every time. And if she can't get over her trauma, how much is it going to be a burden on him? Even if he says he's okay with it, that doesn't mean she's okay with knowing he's missing opportunities because of her baggage.
Even a relationship with two people who care about and love each other can still be an unhealthy one. Which is exactly how she see's their relationship, and I can't really say she's wrong.
Everyone was shouting "why not go with him!?" for chapters (including myself sometimes), but this chapter explained why quite well. She's got other things she wants to do that she doesn't want to drop for a month long journey to another country. She's also not able to just "get over" her past trauma. And that's why she thinks of breaking up.
Because even if she could go this time, she couldn't necessarily go every time. And if she can't get over her trauma, how much is it going to be a burden on him? Even if he says he's okay with it, that doesn't mean she's okay with knowing he's missing opportunities because of her baggage.
Even a relationship with two people who care about and love each other can still be an unhealthy one. Which is exactly how she see's their relationship, and I can't really say she's wrong.
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I'm going to be honest. I'm him and I'm breaking up if she insists but forever, I've seen many women like her and they never get "fixed".
This is beyond toxic and she's being egocentric as fuck, me me me me me me with the excuse of "I'm thinking about you" how about you fucking ask the other person first, put both reasons AND emotioncs on the table to talk about them to reach a consensus? No? You want to feel better about yourself with some "self sacrifice" that satisfies NOONE except your self righteousnes that will come back to bite you later? Fine, enjoy the worst outcome.
This is beyond toxic and she's being egocentric as fuck, me me me me me me with the excuse of "I'm thinking about you" how about you fucking ask the other person first, put both reasons AND emotioncs on the table to talk about them to reach a consensus? No? You want to feel better about yourself with some "self sacrifice" that satisfies NOONE except your self righteousnes that will come back to bite you later? Fine, enjoy the worst outcome.
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Correction. The two of them need therapy.
