well first couple is your ideal healthy couple but second couple is the one which wont last you know no equal treatment no communication no self awarness so it is right to say first couple got married while second will break up she will just sleep with other random dude and dude aint independt on money so its like that but twist is finding first couple is 1000 harder than second couple becasue they descirbe our reality like cheating , selfesteem , jealously , mistake but i would want to be first couple lazing around house wiht someone important to me having sex or kisses or watching movig than just having sex and then having sex with another man and then another you get it right im annoyed