Ase to Sekken - Vol. 6 Ch. 48 - Please Tell Me
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I’m afraid that is not the last we going to se from the creepy English guy. But a little drama is always fun. Hope it doesn’t go on for too long though. Thank you the update.
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Man people are really judgemental when it comes to drama manga like these, I think they both handled it reasonably okay.
Anyway, thanks for the chapter!
Anyway, thanks for the chapter!
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Never go to bed angry. Never leave bed horny.
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I don't understand how people are mad at Kotaro as his reaction was totally human - it was realistic.
Imagine your significant other being asked out and and accepting another persons number because that's essentially what happened.
Just because a relationship is mature doesn't mean emotions don't get in the way.
I think a few people here have idolised this relationship as being perfect too much - it isn't, never was and never will be.
Imagine your significant other being asked out and and accepting another persons number because that's essentially what happened.
Just because a relationship is mature doesn't mean emotions don't get in the way.
I think a few people here have idolised this relationship as being perfect too much - it isn't, never was and never will be.
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i very much dislike this chapter and im glad that the tn addresses how off it feels. i honestly hate it actually and i hope the other chapters dont make me feel this way. it just comes off super controlling and gross and honestly just abusive. that might just be my trauma talking though. i dont really care if its 'realistic' i dont think yelling at your partner until they cry and blaming them for being targeted by a creep is something to be brushed over. and the fact that they had sex right after just... ugh makes me nauseous
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They resolved it with sex. Thats too bad.
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if you think about it, as feelgood as this series is, the fact remains that natori fell in w asako because of her smell
scientifically, it holds grounds
but romantically, it is still sorta primal in nature
so i suppose his possessiveness/jealousy shoulda been expected
i understand if one'd feel weirded/taken aback out by this chapter tho, for many reasons
keep in mind, we've never seen another character compliment asako's smell aside from natori, so that might be why he's especially ticked off (the smell that only he noticed and appreciated is now amplified and noticed by others as a direct result of his perfume gift, and he didnt see that coming)
(also why did the author write the other guy as a jerk on purpose? to put natori's "manhood" on edge? how lame)
scientifically, it holds grounds
but romantically, it is still sorta primal in nature
so i suppose his possessiveness/jealousy shoulda been expected
i understand if one'd feel weirded/taken aback out by this chapter tho, for many reasons
keep in mind, we've never seen another character compliment asako's smell aside from natori, so that might be why he's especially ticked off (the smell that only he noticed and appreciated is now amplified and noticed by others as a direct result of his perfume gift, and he didnt see that coming)
(also why did the author write the other guy as a jerk on purpose? to put natori's "manhood" on edge? how lame)
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Cock and ball torture (CBT) is a sexual activity involving application of pain or constriction to the male genitals. This may involve directly painful activities, such as genital piercing, wax play, genital spanking, squeezing, ball-busting, genital flogging, urethral play, tickle torture, erotic electrostimulation or even kicking. The recipient of such activities may receive direct physical pleasure via masochism, or knowledge that the play is pleasing to a sadistic dominant.
Image: Electrostimulation applied on a penis
Contents: Section 1: In Pornography Section 2: Ball stretcher Section 3: Parachute Section 4: Humbler Section 5: Testicle cuff
Section 1: In pornography
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Section 5: Testicle cuff
A testicle cuff is a ring-shaped device around the scrotum between the body and the testicles which when closed does not allow the testicles to slide through it. A common type has two connected cuffs, one around the scrotum and the other around the base of the penis. They are just one of many devices to restrain the male genitalia. A standard padlock may also be locked around the scrotum; without the key it cannot be removed.
Some passive men enjoy the feeling of being "owned", while dominant individuals enjoy the sense of "owning" their partners. Requiring such a man wear testicle cuffs symbolizes that his sexual organs belong to his partner, who may be either male or female. There is a level of humiliation involved, by which they find sexual arousal. The cuffs may even form part of a sexual fetish of the wearer or his partner.
However, these are extreme uses of testicle cuffs. More conventionally, the device pulls down the testicles and keeps them there during stimulation, which has a number of benefits:
Making the penis appear longer. Pulling the testicles down and away from the base of the penis stretches the skin over the base of the penis and pubic bone, exposing the additional inch or so of penile shaft that is normally hidden from view. Improving sexual arousal. While some men may be aroused by the feeling of being "owned", the physical feeling of stretching the ligaments that suspend the testicles has an effect similar to the more common practice of stretching one's legs and pointing the toes. Preventing the testicles from lifting up so far that they become lodged under the skin immediately adjacent to the base of the penis, a condition which can be very uncomfortable, especially if the testicle is then squashed by the slap of skin during thrusting in sexual intercourse. Delaying or intensifying ejaculation by preventing the testicles from rising normally to the "point of no return". It is much harder to reach an orgasm
Cock and ball torture (CBT) is a sexual activity involving application of pain or constriction to the male genitals. This may involve directly painful activities, such as genital piercing, wax play, genital spanking, squeezing, ball-busting, genital flogging, urethral play, tickle torture, erotic electrostimulation or even kicking. The recipient of such activities may receive direct physical pleasure via masochism, or knowledge that the play is pleasing to a sadistic dominant.
Image: Electrostimulation applied on a penis
Contents: Section 1: In Pornography Section 2: Ball stretcher Section 3: Parachute Section 4: Humbler Section 5: Testicle cuff
Section 1: In pornography
In addition to it’s occasional role in BDSM pornography, Tamakeri (literally Ball kicking) is a separate genre in Japan. One notable actress in tamakeri is Erika Nagai who typically uses her martial arts skills to knee or kick men in the testicles.
Section 2: Ball stretcher A ball stretcher is a sex toy that is fastened around a man in order to elongate the scrotum and provide a feeling of weight pulling the testicles away from the body. While leather stretchers are most common, other models are made of steel rings that are fastened with screws causing additional mildly uncomfortable weight to the wearer. The length of the stretcher may vary from 1-4 inches, and the steel models can weigh as much as five pounds.
Section 3: Parachute
A Parachute is a small collar, usually made from leather, which fastens around the scrotum, and from which weights can be hung. Conical in shape, three or four short chains hanging beneath, to which weights can be attached. Used as part of cock and ball torture within a BDSM relationship, the parachute provides a constant drag, and squeezing effects on the man’s testicles. Moderate weights of 3-5 kg can be suspended, especially during bondage. Smaller weights can be used when the man is free to move, when the swinging effect of the weight can restrict sudden movements, as well as providing a visual stimulus for the dominant partner.
Section 4: Humbler
A humbler is a BDSM physical restraint device used to restrict the movement of a submissive male participant in a BDSM scene. The humbler consists of a testicle cuff device which clamps around the base of the scrotum, mounted in the center of a bar that passes behind the thighs at the base of the buttocks. This forces the wearer to keep his legs forward, as any attempt to to straighten the legs slightly pulls directly on the scrotum, causing from considerable discomfort to extreme pain.
Section 5: Testicle cuff
A testicle cuff is a ring-shaped device around the scrotum between the body and the testicles which when closed does not allow the testicles to slide through it. A common type has two connected cuffs, one around the scrotum and the other around the base of the penis. They are just one of many devices to restrain the male genitalia. A standard padlock may also be locked around the scrotum; without the key it cannot be removed.
Some passive men enjoy the feeling of being "owned", while dominant individuals enjoy the sense of "owning" their partners. Requiring such a man wear testicle cuffs symbolizes that his sexual organs belong to his partner, who may be either male or female. There is a level of humiliation involved, by which they find sexual arousal. The cuffs may even form part of a sexual fetish of the wearer or his partner.
However, these are extreme uses of testicle cuffs. More conventionally, the device pulls down the testicles and keeps them there during stimulation, which has a number of benefits:
Making the penis appear longer. Pulling the testicles down and away from the base of the penis stretches the skin over the base of the penis and pubic bone, exposing the additional inch or so of penile shaft that is normally hidden from view. Improving sexual arousal. While some men may be aroused by the feeling of being "owned", the physical feeling of stretching the ligaments that suspend the testicles has an effect similar to the more common practice of stretching one's legs and pointing the toes. Preventing the testicles from lifting up so far that they become lodged under the skin immediately adjacent to the base of the penis, a condition which can be very uncomfortable, especially if the testicle is then squashed by the slap of skin during thrusting in sexual intercourse. Delaying or intensifying ejaculation by preventing the testicles from rising normally to the "point of no return". It is much harder to reach an orgasm
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@qssnakes Kotaro shouldn’t have yelled Asako but he wasn’t mad that she got targeted and hit on by a creep. He was mad because she accepted the business card and like he said that would tell
The creep that she may still be interested despite her having a boyfriend, does that makes sense? Now the sex part was not the right move, but Kotaro had every reason to be upset that she took the business card
The creep that she may still be interested despite her having a boyfriend, does that makes sense? Now the sex part was not the right move, but Kotaro had every reason to be upset that she took the business card
I'm not sure people who are hard on Kotaro here acknowledge the fact that he would not have brought any of this up if Asako hadn't pressed him for the truth about his feelings. He's self-aware enough to know that his possessive or jealous emotions are out of line - that he cannot possibly pin them on Asako. They're his to manage. He was planning on doing that by himself.
Except humans are not machines and Asako picked up on it. Now what do you do? You weren't planning on showing your partner this ugly side of you at all. It's not Asako's fault he's jealous and possessive about the fact she got hit on by someone else! And yet any functional, committed relationship is rooted in trust. Trust requires honesty. And this is where so many relationships live or die. You have to be able to resolve this inherently contradictory set of maxims. You have to be honest about what you feel, but at the same time, avoid at all costs to put the burden of managing your irrational emotional state on the other person.
Remember that whenever you felt put off by something Kotaro said in this chapter, he is just as put off by what he's saying as you are. He's even figured out how to better handle the situation whenever it arises again - "so how about that business card lol". Phrasing aside, he's also got a very good point - he can't be there to "save" Asako from men who are trying to hit on her, even if she actually doesn't mind him doing the saving because her irrational reaction to it is to feel charmed and flattered. That's not a workable solution in the long term.
I'm not surprised at all this ended in sex. The moment Asako broke out in tears because she put herself in Kotaro's position and understood why he was feeling down on himself all day was a moment of immense catharsis. The conversation was not, at any point, about establishing a set of rules for Asako to live by in order to appease Kotaro's jealousy. To loop back to the start: this began with Asako pressing Kotaro for the truth about his feelings, and that's exactly what she got. She wanted to understand him. And you know what? She was right to ask for the truth, it was right of Kotaro to tell her the truth to the best of his abilities, and ya'll can shut up with your Monday morning quarterbacking.
Except humans are not machines and Asako picked up on it. Now what do you do? You weren't planning on showing your partner this ugly side of you at all. It's not Asako's fault he's jealous and possessive about the fact she got hit on by someone else! And yet any functional, committed relationship is rooted in trust. Trust requires honesty. And this is where so many relationships live or die. You have to be able to resolve this inherently contradictory set of maxims. You have to be honest about what you feel, but at the same time, avoid at all costs to put the burden of managing your irrational emotional state on the other person.
Remember that whenever you felt put off by something Kotaro said in this chapter, he is just as put off by what he's saying as you are. He's even figured out how to better handle the situation whenever it arises again - "so how about that business card lol". Phrasing aside, he's also got a very good point - he can't be there to "save" Asako from men who are trying to hit on her, even if she actually doesn't mind him doing the saving because her irrational reaction to it is to feel charmed and flattered. That's not a workable solution in the long term.
I'm not surprised at all this ended in sex. The moment Asako broke out in tears because she put herself in Kotaro's position and understood why he was feeling down on himself all day was a moment of immense catharsis. The conversation was not, at any point, about establishing a set of rules for Asako to live by in order to appease Kotaro's jealousy. To loop back to the start: this began with Asako pressing Kotaro for the truth about his feelings, and that's exactly what she got. She wanted to understand him. And you know what? She was right to ask for the truth, it was right of Kotaro to tell her the truth to the best of his abilities, and ya'll can shut up with your Monday morning quarterbacking.
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great chapter
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Why are people being so hard on Kotaro?? She asked for why he was down, he told her, she completely and totally understood why, then they had make up sex. He shouted once but it was just a short outburst and was in no way abusive or filled with malice. And in my honest opinion this level of possessiveness is definitely fine... it's not even to the point that I'd call him possessive at all. If anything he just isn't a cuck.
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