Boku no Kokoro no Yabai Yatsu - Ch. 181 - I'm a Piece of Trash

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This is the sort of thing I think about when I say harems aren't practical.

It's a huge investment of time and energy just to maintain one relationship, so how tf does someone manage multiple intimate relations?

Anyway, good luck, Ichi. You're not trash, you're just a dumb kid trying to Relationship.
 
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Is this their 1st big fight?.??
like legit Fight?
lots of learning curves for 1st couples indeed
 
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“Even though I didn’t do anything I should feel guilty about…”

Whether you did a Bad Thing or not is the wrong question. The right question is, “Why is Yamada upset?”

And there’s nobody better suited to answer that than her. That’s why the best move here is to tell her, “If you’re upset, I absolutely want to understand why. Especially if it’s to do with something I did. So please, talk to me.”

Understanding the feelings involved comes first. The two of you can work out right and wrong later.
 
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This is the sort of thing I think about when I say harems aren't practical.

It's a huge investment of time and energy just to maintain one relationship, so how tf does someone manage multiple intimate relations?

Anyway, good luck, Ichi. You're not trash, you're just a dumb kid trying to Relationship.
If it’s usually a collective & mutual understanding by the partners But it’s different for many
just like there are Ménage à trois lifestyles it a hard road to maintain
 

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“Even though I didn’t do anything I should feel guilty about…”

Whether you did a Bad Thing or not is the wrong question. The right question is, “Why is Yamada upset?”

And there’s nobody better suited to answer that than her. That’s why the best move here is to tell her, “If you’re upset, I absolutely want to understand why. Especially if it’s to do with something I did. So please, talk to me.”

Understanding the feelings involved comes first. The two of you can work out right and wrong later.
Did you just speed read the chapter? On page 7, he's explaining himself and apologizing. It's not good enough for Yamada which is fair. She tells him, "it's not that." But instead of explaining what got her upset, she walked away. It takes two to tango, you simp.
 
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The most forced nothing burger drama ever, perhaps? Although I suppose it's not entirely inaccurate considering they're middle schoolers.
Not nothing burger, in fact I would argue this is the catalyst of how their relationship will be in the future. Because hate it or not, Yamada is 100% lock-in on her career, which is a good thing, but there will be sacrifices to be made in term of their relationship because the idol industry is cancerous for romantic relationship, especially for someone to date others that aren't belong in that industry. There is a reason why relationship in idol and movies industry often come and go so much, most of them are fiction and only served to be beneficial for their career.

If this drama doesn't get solved, and by solved I mean thoroughly solved, not just merely brushed aside or treated as goofy moments, I sincerely hope they will ended up parting away. Because without a good balance and compromise, their relationship would eventually boiled down to one person sacrificing everything to help served the other's interests and careers. It will be either Yamada having to leave the idol behind or Ichi always in constant paranoid about being find out and being judged as her partner, especially if she make it big and become a big name, not to mention the tabloid and all the stupid dramas about her love life with other actors too, the media loves and WILL stir shit up, it will be mentally nightmare. And I don't want this relationship to turned toxic like that
 
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Im a say this and some of you will probably get upset but he's been frustrating ever since they became official and its annoying honestly cause yamada deserves better
 
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Im a say this and some of you will probably get upset but he's been frustrating ever since they became official and its annoying honestly cause yamada deserves better
Funny cuz I feel the exact opposite. This whole relationship so far has been at Ichikawa’s expense and he deserves better than to always have to be the one to take the brunt of the bullshit that comes from her career in general. He’s done nothing but try to make compromises and the one time he fucks up he’s painted as a complete scumbag. People acting like Yamada is completely blameless in this whole relationship is laughable because she’s not making the most sacrifice out of the two and just like him, she has been horrible at communicating
 
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Funny cuz I feel the exact opposite. This whole relationship so far has been at Ichikawa’s expense and he deserves better than to always have to be the one to take the brunt of the bullshit that comes from her career in general. He’s done nothing but try to make compromises and the one time he fucks up he’s painted as a complete scumbag. People acting like Yamada is completely blameless in this whole relationship is laughable because she’s not making the most sacrifice out of the two and just like him, she has been horrible at communicating
Just look at this chapter alone ...whole her fren and even his family all only blame and push him only ...
 

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