isn't there a difference between sexual violence and bdsm? (i'm not entirely sure ofc so apologies if i'm wrong)
because if the red hair is into that stuff and consents isn't that different from like sexual violence where someone is forcing themselves onto someone and getting violent if refused? atleast that's what I got from reading stories that have the sexual violence tag, never seen the tag on stuff that has bdsm, but I use a wide variety of sites so it might depend ^^