They both are perverts in their own areas. Also, maybe it is just a cultural thing, but how does a girl wanting/initiating to have sex with her BF/husband make her a pervert anymore than if the guy wants/initiates it? It isn't really perverted either (unless you fuck almost 24/7, then yeah, you both are). All of my friends like it when their GFs ask to have sex too, instead of only being them who ask for it, and none of us think anything less of them.