@So-chan
Some people in the west aren't aware of this, but "Jap" is a derogatory term that is widely considered to be an outright ethnic slur. I have relatives who grew up during the period of intense racist propaganda that surrounded WW2, and they sometimes use the term as though completely unaware of the negative baggage it carries, so I tend to extend considerable benefit of the doubt to people who use it, but please kindly be more judicious in the future.
the girl w the bf who said he was just practicing for future dates w his ex, needs a new man...like girl what are you doing?!?!? Next thing he's gonna 'practice' fu*king w his ex as well...