I feel like the author purposefully has a rule in place, that the dude must always lose. I'm betting the only time he'll succeed is when the manga is coming to an end.
@Arcverson have you never been around a girls pussy? when you're close it takes over, it's like mind control even though it isn't as visually appealing
@nwatn because that's our most basic instinct... we are programmed to want it. Maybe not to gay people, because obviously there's something wrong with them to not want pussy...