Well, there's one thing to gain confidence in something you're not really are, but need to be careful not to loose yourself in daring to go further.
I knew someone who had little confidence in herself, tried darn best to support, but she was too confused about someone giving so much attention when lacked in life. Took advice during blissful times with wrong people, having no financial struggles any more gave in secretly in addiction, even after rehab, other people words stick too much and we broke up.
Haven't heard from her in quite a while, although I kept in touch with her father from time to time because he is a cool dude, she supposedly went down really bad in health got serious atherosclerosis and is in serious debt due to meeting people that don't actually care... feeling bad for her parents for not working out... ehh...
Anyway, on to the next chapter!